I'm 16 and I'm at the end of my rope. I try hard, but do poorly in all of my classes. I don't have money for college, nor do I know where I want to go yet. I can't drive and I don't have the time to learn, thanks to school. As if this wasn't enough, I spend all my time helping my friends with problems even worse than mine despite the fact none of them will help me back. My girlfriend is the only one who really gives a damn about me...and it's a distance relationship.
I'm so close to just running away or even, dare I say it, suicide. I don't know what to do. Nothing ever changes and I'm sick of it.
Please Help.
2006-12-19 12:09:52 · 8 answers · asked by Not done with love 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Look, life is filled with its ups and downs, trust me...There are days you will feel like crap, then there are others when you are feeling just great. You just have to hold your head up and keep going, do not allow things to get you down because it will lead to other problems in your life and you definitely do not want any more problems then what you already have....
I know how it is when maybe there are people in the world who seems as if they do not care about you or that you are just fighting a losing battle but if you dont take anything from this message, you understand that no matter what odds you face, you have to find a way to keep going and never give in to negative crap......
Uh, feel free to email me if you want dude, you (but you arent the only one so dont feel bad) have positive things ahead in your life that should be the focus!!!!
2006-12-19 12:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there an adult you can trust to tell them how you are feeling, what about at school or your parents. The important thing is you have got to talk to someone that can help you figure out what's going on in your life and ways to help make things better. Things will get better if you start making some changes, even the small ones count. Do not runaway from this situation nor should you hurt yourself. Give talking to someone a try, I think that may be able to help you. Being a teenager is rough and I do feel for you. Good Luck..
2006-12-19 12:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by Gee-Gee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're within the role wherein you need to select: Do you wish a existence with a household and peers? Or do you wish to be socially remoted from the whole thing you understand and love. Personally, I could love the possibility that you just presently have. While I love my household and peers very so much, I've found out to not style bodily or emotional attachments to anybody. This summer season I spent a month in Hawaii, clear of the whole thing and every person I knew, and had an strong time. Granted, a month is not a existence time, however I suppose that I could be greater than inclined to "go away this existence in the back of" for a thoroughly new, most likely intriguing one. You simply have to make a decision what form of man or woman you're. Can you are living with out so much touch with others? Or do you have to bond with others to be pleased. Good good fortune.
2016-09-03 17:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by adamek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE A BREAK!!!!!!! you seem to be rescuing people all the time and the most important person is falling behind: YOU!!! My daughter is 17 and she has lots of friends...find new ones!! those around you are not positive intake...they are NOT your real friends!!!!focus on school!!! that's your future- find no excuses to feel bad about you: WE CHOSE OUR DESTINY...once you finish high school there are many doors to open. College is not the only option...there are many other things to do. Money is just a state of mind...ask rich people; some of them are not even happy!!!!
Please change the way you look at life: have no parents???? they surely love you. WE may NOT LIKE the present life but I am sure that we can change it. You are stil beginning!!! Good luck!!! Please, don't give up!
2006-12-19 13:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by snglmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are at a good starting point admiting this is the first step. You can't change what is behind you, however, you do have a future.
Running away solves nothing...you are running from problems. And giving you life up is not worth it. The things that have happened to you are "bruises of satan." His plan is to kill, steal, and destroy. This is the picture that you have painted for us in the question.
Now comes the hard part, putting your feet into action. I have know others like you. The ones that seemed to move on, were those who started living a life of faith. I have visited with the homeless and down and outters. Many were strung out on drugs and the ones who put their trust in Christ, were delievered from that lifestyle.
I am of the firm believe that no one can change their lives by themselves it take others in their life and the Holy Spirit in our lives to help us to change from the inside out. I KNOW THE PLANS THAT I HAVE FOR YOU, Plans of a Future and a Hope. God loves to restore those things in our lives that have been broken.
you are in my prayers.
2006-12-19 14:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by 2 know Him & 2 Make Him known 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO DO NOT KILL YOURSELF OR RUN AWAY FROM YOUR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
NEVER EVER RUN AWAY FROM YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS. THEY WILL BE HEART BROKEN EVEN IF YOU LEAVE A NOTE OR VIDEO. THEY WILL NEVER KNOW THE TRUE REASON FOR IT. IF YOU HATE YOUR LIFE THEN TALK ABOUT IT TO THE PEOPLE YOU REALLY CARE ABOUT. THEY WILL HELP SORT IT OUT OR GET SOME HELP FROM A PROFESSIONAL. TELL YOUR FAMILY YOU NEED A BREAK FROM LIFE AND GO ON A HOLIDAY FOR A WEEK OR TWO. THAT SHOULD HELP YOU FELL BETTER AND GET BACK INTO THE ACTION. IF YOU ARE FAILING TESTS AND CLASSES THEN TRY HARDER THAN BEFORE AND GET A TUTOR OR JUST GET SOME MORE SLEEP. IT IS NEARLY CHRISTMAS. TIME FOR A BREAK AND TIME FOR YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY. TELL YOUR GIRLFRIEND ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS AND SHE CAN HELP YOU. EVEN IF IT IS A DISTANT RELATIONSHIP WHO CARES. SHE CARES FOR YOU AND THATS ALL THAT MATTERS. IF YOU RUN AWAY OR COMMIT SUICIDE THEN YOU HAVE A TRULY SICK HEART.
IF YOU DONT HAVE MONEY FOR COLLEGE THEN START A PART TIME JOB TO GET SOEM MONEY. THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT TO BE. GO INTO THE CITY AND CHECK OUT SOME JOBS. YOU COULD BE SUPRISED WITH SOEM OF THE JOBS YOU SEE. WELL IF YOU DONT HAVE TIME TO DRIVE THEN JUST CATCH PUBLIC TRANSPORT. IF YOUR FRIENDS DONT HELP YOU BACK THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS AT ALL. ASK THEM AGAIN TO HELP YOU AND TALK TO THEM ONE ON ONE.
2006-12-19 12:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by az_nichols 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude im 16 too and i get where youre coming from, stuff piles up and seems like its too much to handle but believe me, things always get better. Dont ever give up on life because everyone has their time to shine. My best advice is just to go with the flow. Dont worry about the future, college etc., just concentrate on the present and get through high school. The teen years, so i hear, are one of the toughest times youll go through. just hang on, i promise it will be OK.
2006-12-19 12:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://youtube.com/watch?v=s6UtJyR4cZY
have courage....I've been there
2006-12-19 13:38:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋