I am a married woman and I think I have a crush on my friend of 7 years. My husband is extremely jealous of our relationship but I insist on calling or texting him at least once a day. Is this normal?
2006-12-19 12:06:28 · 17 answers · asked by SexyLawstudent 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your husband has every right to be jealous as well as upset too. You have a crush on another guy then you should end this relationship marriage or either just get over your crush by not calling him like you do. Sooner or later this will cause problems if it is to continue, possibly violence can occur so if I were you I would have the situation resolved because we all know that we cannot (SHOULDNT) have our cake and eat it too without some form of complications....!!!!
2006-12-19 12:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, this isn't normal. Why do you have to text or call him everyday? One thing that you should keep in mind is that you are married. How would you feel if the shoe where on the other foot? Your husband has good reason to be jealous. You are calling or texting another man at least once a day. How much do you value your marriage? If things are going further than what you think then you need to draw the line. Remember, you made a commitment to your husband.
2006-12-19 12:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello.
I think that it is okay to have a crush on your guy friend but at the same time you need to ask yourself a couple of questions: How long have we been friends? Would I rather keep him as a friend or try and make a relationship? and Do you have someone and does he have someone?
I had a best guy friend for a good 5 years. I decided to tell him that I really liked him and I found out that he liked me back...on the other hand we were together almost 4 years and we were engaged. I found out that he had been cheating on me about 2 weeks before our four year aniversary. I was devistated. I have not talked to him since the breakup and that was 6 years ago. Now that I think about it if it was different I would still want to be friends and say forget the relationship. On the other hand there are a lot of people who have had successful relationships with their friends that became their lovers.
In my opinion I would find out exacly how he feels towards you. Good luck!
2006-12-19 12:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by Cleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it is, just as long as you are not talking to your male friend more than you talk to your husband, because if you do then your husband will think that something is going on with the two of you. Or you can just talk to your male friend every other day cause if you call or text him everyday your husband will come to the point when he will say" It's between me or him?" so be very careful of what you are doing.
2006-12-19 12:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by Kourtne C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
before everything, permit's basically make clean why interior the international you opt to be pals with somebody who's so disrespectful and violent in direction of you? If he's that way with maximum folk, then why do you you think of he ought to or might manage you in any different case? My suitable propose is pass away this guy on my own. a lot of those adult adult males are basically crammed with warm air yet there are basically as many that relatively are violent and unsafe. the two way, his ideas-set, the failings he says etc.., are basically no longer ok. i think of you ought to deliver an fairly clean message and then evade him.
2016-10-15 06:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK if you weren't married then I'd say yes but be careful because so many people lose there friendship when they tell the other that they have a "crush" on the other. But your married so you should be happy with who your with and not think about other men in that way, if you do i bet you could be happier!
2006-12-19 12:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by Emma 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are cheating on your husband. accept that. i encourage you and your husband to go tomarrige counseling and remember. you didn't take really expect to be completely in love with your husband forever. however you made a promise to love honor and cherish him. if you want to stay with your husband, tell your guy fiend how you feel, and that it is not fair to your husband. remember in the "bridges of madison county". a woman makes a commitment when she gets married, and she has no choice but to remain true to her vow of marrige.
2006-12-19 12:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by wilrycar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sometimes normal. If you've been married for a short or a long period of time. Ask you best friend on what to do. Or tell your friend about your problem. Sometimes they have better advice than people online like me.
2006-12-19 12:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by Tleek 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YESSSS without a doubt. But just answer one question to yourself and be as trueful as u can be ( 100% ). What is the shoe was on the other foot, how would you act. Don`t answer just sit alone and think about your answer and act on it.
2006-12-19 12:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by drewdog65 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are having an emotional affair...any time or energy you put into calling or emailing him is cheating on your husband.
2006-12-19 12:14:33 · answer #10 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋