My ex-husband was remarried about three years ago. Lately he's been calling me saying really dirty things that make me feel uncomfortable. I would report him to the police but we have children together and I don't want him to go to jail or lose his job over this. I work part time and really depend on his child support and health benefits.
What should I do? I almost want to give up the goods so that he'll stop calling me. The thought of having sex with him makes me want to jump off a building. His belly laps over his man tool.
2006-12-19 12:03:33 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to your pastor he can guide & counsel you. Pray for your husband.
2006-12-19 12:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell his new wife!! And why in the world would you ever think of having sex with him again, especially after all the things he is saying to you. You say it makes you feel uncomfortable and you describe him with disgust. So why would you even give it a second thought? Have a little pride in yourself. Don't allow him to trash your mind. If you are worried about losing your child support, then take him to court over the harassment and tell them he may stop your support, they will garnish his check.
Stand up for yourself!
2006-12-19 12:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by megabites42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe what you want to do is to change your number. Another thing is to have the children to answer the telephone if you see his number show up on the caller id. You can also let him know that you have been having these calls and that you are thinking of having your line tapped. The next thing is when he calls let him know that he is being recorded and it will be turned over to the police to scare him.
2006-12-19 12:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh No! Don't give up the Goods Woman! LOL Tell him just what u feel(uncomfortable) or if that won't work for ya, just don't pick up; let it go to voice mail. At least you'll have him recorded if he decides to leave a dirty message..blackmail is the best revenge dear..or u can report him to authorities.
2006-12-19 12:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by nh_lady_2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tape him talking like that then threaten to tell his new wife and prove it to her. If this doesn't work and he continues, then get the police involved. If you don't put an end to it, he'll just continue. As far as child support, he's going to have to support the kids no matter what. There is no reason why you should have to put up with that type of verbal abuse. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-19 12:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 12:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by bridgman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would record the call every time he called. I would start the conversation with Please be advised that this call is being recorded if you don't want to be recorded then hang up. I think you can record if you tell him that your recording him. Or tell him that you are advising him that you take of fence to him disrespecting you in that manner,.....Look If you stay listening to his dirty talk then you are telling him it is okay for him to talk to you like that. If you want him to stop then tell him that from this point on the first dirty word that he says will be the last thing he says to you, tell him you will hang up every time he says something dirty to you. He will stop because you will no longer be allowing it.
The power is in your hands use it.
2006-12-19 12:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not willing to call the police then i guess you will just have to put up with him. I would sure as hell call the cops on his fat a.. You will find a way to take care of yourself and kids if he goes to jail and looses hiss job, maybe he should have alittle scare put in him. You shouldn't have to live that way and neither should your kids, they probably know something is wrong.
2006-12-19 12:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that until he shuts the hole in his face up, you will refuse to let him see the kids. Tell him he is disrespecting the mother of his children and once they start hearing it, they will think its OK to talk to people like that. He needs a swift kick in his mouth. Don't tolerate disrespect!! And please don't allow him to intimidate you. Don't just threaten, follow through. As far as child support, its a law that he pays so don't worry that you will lose it. That's his responsibility. Lots of luck~
2006-12-19 12:32:03 · answer #9 · answered by CTMEDS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husband's password/login?
2016-09-03 10:07:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's terrible. but don't let the fear of losing health benefits,etc. stop you from putting a stop to his disgusting behavior. you could try bluffing him first, if you think it would work. tell him that you've recorded everything that he's said to you, and you're going to let his wife listen to it if he doesn't quit. if that doesn't work, actually record what he says to you, and tell him that you're taking it to the police, and make good on your word.
Good luck with everything.
2006-12-19 12:12:25 · answer #11 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋