Anyone have any ideas on how to spice up my sex life with my wife?We arent like out of fire right now but I dont want to get that way.Any techniques, methods, or things to do?
2006-12-19 11:41:08 · 18 answers · asked by Chris L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Rose pedals in a bubble bath, and on the sheets, a trail leading from the bath to the bed is nice, candles on side of the bathtub, KY warming gel, and a full body massage. A blind fold for her and play find the hot spot... just an idea it works for my husband and I.
You can surprise her with a picnic in the bedroom to... if you can cook or you know of a good take out place... a nice comfy blanket, low lights, soft music, great conversation preferably about all the things you want to do to her (if she likes to hear stuff like that) whip cream on the nightstand with a note telling her she's the desert.
I could think of more lol but this is stuff I like so I don't know if it will please your wife but you can try them.
2006-12-19 12:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by Alicia S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things outside the bedroom like planning a romantic night out to a play or the theater or a weekend a way at a cabin. Do some things to help her out like wash the dishes, help with laundry, clean the house...things that will make her think about what a great guy you are. The mind is the most important organ when it comes to sex.
2006-12-19 11:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by DGS 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't nasty, especially if you're married! You can try different positions, new acts, bringing in toys or other props (I tried candle wax with my fiancee recently; she loved it). Maybe pick up some books on this stuff to get ideas. If you have the time and money, a romantic trip is always a good choice.
2006-12-19 11:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by hslayer 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
communication is the key. sit down at the table and tell her that sex is great but you would like to try some things to make it even better. she might have the samefeelings. just remember "OW" means stop. and if you get her a vibe, let the first one be a "bullet" vib. they arent as scary looking as a huge, dong shaped vibe. and tell her that you want her to findthings that enhance her enjoyment. its a huge turn on for me personally to watch my wife orgasm.
2006-12-19 12:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by wilrycar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it quite is what separates us from the canines interior the international ok? we've a element referred to as self administration. Use it. Your married. each and every time you even think of approximately flirting and dishonest you bear in suggestions your husband. you prefer to truly screew up your life - play around on an analogous time as married with a CO-worker.....everybody will discover out - everybody will gossip and as quickly as your attractiveness is ruined that's it.
2016-10-05 12:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn massage techniques.
2006-12-19 11:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by Automation Wizard 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always remember to be spontaneous, romantic, and realize the reasons you are together, and the rest will take care of itself.
2006-12-19 11:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by Special K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get these books
massage for lovers
1001 ways to be romantic
1001 ways to drove a women wild in bed.
karma sutra
2006-12-19 18:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by lovelife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tantra.... a combination of massage and focus of those magic spots.... and making your love for each other very intense. Almosy insanely intense.
2006-12-19 12:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Squirt some hot sauce on your wiener, that will spice it up good.
2006-12-19 11:55:38 · answer #10 · answered by PDH 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋