I am a 15 year old girl who is EXTREMELY shy and quiet. I've been like this my whole life. It's really hard for me to make friends. I want to talk to people, but I just don't knbow what to say. I'm afraid they'll make fun of me or think I'm a looser. I hardly if ever talk to guys, and I've never had a boyfriend. I'm scared that in 20 years I'll be a crazy cat lady. How can I talk to people?
2006-12-19 11:29:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you know what is the fastest way to learn swiming ?
get into the water!!
just start talking, and remember other people have the same feelings that you have ,they also concerned and they don't want to be taken as losers , so you and them are in the same starting point take advantage of that.
2006-12-19 11:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by w0nd3ring2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take up smoking. Than do not take a lighter any where you will be forced to ask people for a light it is a great conversation starter. On a more serious note you should join a club or after school project were you will working with your peers to achieve a goal. This will ensure communication and eventually you will get over the difficulties of talking with people.
2006-12-19 19:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by felixtricks 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Highschool is an aweful place in my opinion. Life after highschool is very very different. You'll make friends at your jobs, in your outings, and through other people. Don't worry you won't be crazy. But here is a warning! If you EVER get a female cat get it spayed IMMEDIATELY. I waited and am now working down to eight cats from fifteen!
2006-12-19 19:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by Lexi Lexington 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start off with general conversation, i mean if you are at school, strick up conversation about what is going on at your school. you really need to come out of your shell, there are many people that probably want to talk with you and be your friend,
remember god loves you and wants only the best for all of his children, talk to god and ask him to guide you about this shyness that you have, he listen's to all prayers and answer's all prayers.
god bless you and merry christmas !!!!
2006-12-19 19:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by Indiana Colts Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey give yourself some more time. Your only 15 to young to worry about that just be yourself. Good Luck
2006-12-19 19:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to someone at school that has frfiend potential and invite her over and try to be friends with her friends... if u meet a boy u reall like then u will not be shy and will be able to talk to him
2006-12-19 19:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by Lucky#11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find people that are kind of like you, and talk to them about something you are interested in and know a lot about!
2006-12-19 19:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by Holly Ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i knoe how u feel, im like dat 2, i just go wit da flow i just as people sum simple question
2006-12-19 20:24:48 · answer #8 · answered by personaltiyqueen92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be ur self and hang out with someone
2006-12-19 19:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by c_h_h_a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋