i made moves on her too and she knew i liked her thats y she led me on.... but i am obsessed with her and cant stop thinking bout her, talking bout her, and/ or even writing to her! i love her and ...... she said she was scared but she led me on and.... oh man! I LOVE HER!
2006-12-19 11:17:03 · 8 answers · asked by bmwildfire 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Wow. Okay, slow down. First of all when you see this person all of the time it is very easy to think of her all of the time. Believe me. I know. I was in love (and I loved her too) with my best friend and man is she HOT. After a few months away from her, I didn't think of her so much. If she is leading you on, there is nothing you can do about it sweetie. Take some time off, spend time with other friends. If you can spend time with some friends that do NOT know her, that way she doesn't come up in conversation...if you or someone else keeps on bringing her up-how will you ever move on? Second thing is, how old are you two? She may be scared since she is young and afraid of the unknown. She may be in that stage of not knowing what she likes. I had issues with my sexuality for YEARS. I mean YEARS and into my 20's. Don't push her. You will drive her away. In an sure in a year or two, you will look back at this and realize everything is okay.
2006-12-27 03:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down. Calm down. Breath!!! No, no, slowly please. First of all, if she means that much to you, is this really love and not an obsession? She led you on, and is doing what now? Talk/not talking to you? Seeing/not seeing you? Best to take a really good look at what is going on and think about talking with a close friend who can be really honest and blunt with you.
2006-12-19 11:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being obsessed is not healthy. I know how it feels to be truly madly and deeply in love with someone. But you have to give her some space. Let her know exactly how you feel then let her take it from there. But dont make your self seem too desperate and available,she may just end up taking advantage of your feelings.
Good Luck sweetie.
2006-12-19 11:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by shell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I answered your first question. Well, if you know for a fact that she swings both ways, then I would suggest slowing down and taking it one step at a time. I know, that's REALLY hard to do when you have a cruch like you do. But just remember, patience and taking it slow make the outcome even sweeter!
Good luck to you!
2006-12-19 11:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First love is really hard when it's unrequited.
You need to move on and find someone else. (I wish someone had told me that) I know that when you're in love you want to cling to it and not let it go, but you'll be happier in the long run if you do it.
Distract yourself. Hang out with your other friends. It'll all be ok in time.
2006-12-19 11:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by pixiest 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might be lying to you or you might be lying to yourself. It wasn't right to lead you on but you can't lose your head either. Try not to lose a friend. She might be hiding her feelings for you so don't be so direct with her. Apologize for acting the way you did, (not that you need to) and then observe the way her mood changes around you. Nothing else to do but follow your gut after that.
2006-12-19 11:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by Leighton H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay. So what is your question dear?
2006-12-19 11:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by ♥i WANNA KN0W♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just give her time. she will be ok talk to her about it
2006-12-19 11:38:12 · answer #8 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋