I have this major crush on my ex-best friend, she mad moves on me when i slept over in October, and ever since then I can't get her out of my head. Things went on between us, she let me hold her and everything, i though we were gonna kiss but her mom called her downstairs. She came up and we talked and got back in the position we were in before, she was sitting on me and hugging me. And then that Monday when we went back to school she hated me. And i know from experience she was lying to me when I asked her why she hates me..... and I can only think about her, sexually and what it could've been! How do I let go? I miss her and I really truley love her!
2006-12-19 11:00:28 · 12 answers · asked by bmwildfire 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think this could be a major crush not love,if she's the first girl who has been like this with you,then its normal to feel this way.you sound young from what you say back to school.If by any chance she does feel for you,then she might be acting this way because of her own feelings.She might be scared and frighted and wondering what is going on.you have you're whole life ahead of you so live each day as it comes.If she doesn't want to talk to you ignore her,and move on and show her that you are not bothered,she will feel more hurt,and may come running back to you.good luck!
2006-12-19 13:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by half pint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she is straight. I think she is bi, she was making the moves on you but she properly thinks you brushed her off seeing nothing really eventuated. She was embarrassed and a bit angry that she put her self out there and you didn't take it or that she was afraid you were going to tell people what happened. That's why i think she "hated" you the following Monday. If you can get back to being friends and end up in the same situation tell her you have feelings for her and dont let the situation slip away, if you think she is ready to hear that.
If you think there is no way you two to be friends again your going to have to move on, stop thinking about it and what could of been because thats just wish ful thinking. I do believe you miss her but try directing your attention else where, slowly but surely you will move on, and find someone that will appreciate you.
Best of Luck Sweetie : )
2006-12-19 11:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by Shes a Cookie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is the way I see it. Women are naturally very affectionate to begin with. It is NOT unusual to see hetero women hugging, walking arm in arm, and even kissing on the cheek all the time. They even cuddle a lot. It does not mean they are lesbians though.
It must be hard for a young gay woman out there because of that. I don't know really what to suggest other than talk openly about how you feel. If she hates you because of it, then do you really want her as a friend or lover anyway?
2006-12-19 11:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her how you feel. It may be risky if you water the strange plant. It could die if you do or if you don't. It can also sprout into something beautiful that's been waiting for you to give it some love all along. If you truly love her, you'll follow your heart until your spirit reunites you two and what is meant to be happens. If it's not meant to be,follow your heart until you meet your real second half. You'll know when that happens.
2006-12-19 11:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by Leighton H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For whatever reason, she feels threatened by you.
You have only one choice and that's try to move on with your life. Time will take care of your feelings for her. No quick fixes for this one, I'm afraid.
2006-12-19 11:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by castle h 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just let her go. you said you only thought about the sexual part. well that means that it would have only been sexual. there is lot more that can be gained from a relationship, not just sex. keeo looking around you will find the right girl soon.
2006-12-19 12:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by eca1094 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'll get over it. Everyone falls for a straight girl at least once.
2006-12-19 11:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by lcraesharbor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u and its ok i hade an experience like that before to just eat some ice cream lol
2006-12-19 11:41:00 · answer #8 · answered by i luv ya do u luv me? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you truly love someone who treats you like that? You deserve a better love than that.
2006-12-19 11:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by cripesokay2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and fine some way to get to your house and give her the sex she will ever have. then she continue to ask for more and i will you.
2006-12-20 03:43:45 · answer #10 · answered by Melody M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋