Dream Question; What do you think this means?

Question

Me and my boy decided to get married.

We are working on relocating me to where he lives. We haven't set a date or anything in till we know we have a place to live and have the things we need.

I want to set the date but i don't want to push the subject with my fiance because we have so much going on at the moment.

Last night for no reason....i dreamed that he told me " We have to start getting the wedding plans ready"

Does it mean anything? i have been working on getting a job and looking into purchasing a home so i haven't really been thinking about the plans for the wedding. Well another reason why is because we don't have much $$$$ to do a wedding to our liking so i kind of just put it in the backburner for the moment.

His mom also had a dream of her 14yr niece getting married in two occasions. her niece lives overseas and she hasn't met her. Any meaning on this one?

Answer 1

It sounds like you really do want to get the wedding off the back burner and get on with the real life of a marriage. Maybe you should set the date, a year from whatever month you want to wed in, there is something in setting events into motion, it gives you reality to your life and hopes and yes..........dreams.

As for his mom dreaming of the niece getting married, She too, understands one of two things, that putting the wedding on the back burner so to speak,is always in the mans advantage....(leaves the committal thingies up in the air) 2. she wants to see the wedding take place.

and finally my point of view....if you wait for everything to come together just the way you want it, it may never happen and whats wrong will going ahead and making those "coming together" happen while you are married and building a life of wonderful memories.

Answer 2

You're presuming that all dreams can in some way foresee the future. They can't. Sometimes it can appear that way because real life mimics what happens in dreams, but usually it's the other way around: Dreams mimic what happens in real life.

Dreams are basically your brain's way of keeping itself healthy while you sleep. Sometimes they can be ways of solving problems you either repress or overlook when you're awake. It's interesting that in describing this situation you're not expressing your feelings about the situation -- you explain why you're not trying to get married right now, but you don't mention how you feel about it. How do you feel about it? Maybe figuring that out is what the dream is about.

Answer 3

There is no reason to suppose there is a causal connection between random brain activity while sleeping, and actual meaning in the world. Your dreams mean nothing except that your brain is functioning in a certain which has been deemed normal by experts.

Sorry, no mysterys here, and to think otherwise is to embrace irrational supersitions and pseudo-science.

Answer 4

I'm assuming when you say, "me and my boy" that you are talking about your fiance. That, in the dream, he states, "We have to start getting the wedding plans ready," is merely a representation of the wishful thinking that is taking place, consciously or unconsciously, in your mind. You want him to want it (getting married) as much as you do.

I really have no idea what his mother's dream, about her fourteen year old niece whom she has never met, is about at all. It is significant to you in that much of your time is spent thinking about getting married.

Answer 5

Well a lot of times when you spend a great deal of time thinking about something, you dream about it. It could just mean that you're worried about the relationship. I'm not sure about you're mom's dream though...maybe she's worried about losing you because you're planning on getting married.

Answer 6

Dreams are just the mind's purging of data; they don't mean anything.