I been attending a christian church every wednesday. Well my husband knows when I go. Lately his been acting like a jerk and not letting me go. Everytime Im about to leave he argues with me. His so controlling I can't even go to church but he can spend time with his friends out. His sister calls my sister to ask if I am going to church. She was asking all sorts of questions that I think he told her to ask so he could know if i was really attending church. I'm fed up with this what can i do? Or I'm I making a big deal out of this?
2006-12-19 10:57:16 · 22 answers · asked by latina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have invited him to church with me and he don't want to go. He doesn't like anyone in that church that's what he told me. His yelled at me and criticised me for going to church.
2006-12-19 11:17:44 · update #1
i am christian so i think you are doing the right thing! i think your husband should go to! however you have the right to go where you want when you want! you should talk to him! maybe take him to a service!? if you cantget through to him in any manner take time from eachother and if that doesn't work you might have to get a divorce but lets hope that doesnt happen! hope i helped!!!
ps trust in the lord always he will guid you to the place you need to go!
2006-12-19 11:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ally B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know how men are and people in general, your husband is cheating on you and thinks that you are using church as an excuse to get out of the house. He thinks you might be cheating or will eventually. The problem is his and he needs to get over it. He is the one making a big deal. Why don't you ask him to go along to church with you if he has such an issue with it.
2006-12-19 19:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being VERY controlling and you have every right to be upset. Talk to your priest and ask his advice. Your husband has no right to keep you from church. Tell your husband that he needs to start trusting you, and ask him if there is any particular reason why he doesn't want you to go. If he has no valid reason but is just trying to dominate you, you should leave the relationship before it gets dangerous. (Even if your religion prohibits divorce, you can still be separated and live apart, for your own safety.)
2006-12-19 19:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be packing not on the yahoo web site asking what you should do. Go have a fun life and go to church! Leave Mr. Controll Freak!
2006-12-19 19:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you make a stand and go on to church even if he doesn't like then it's very possible that your obedience to God will get him saved also. Whatever you do, don't give into him and stay home. This very thing has happened to a lot of people and after a while they give up even trying to go, then both them and their spouse are lost. Listen to God, not man. GO ON TO CHURCH
2006-12-19 21:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by bear4141usa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to leave him. If he can't accpet you for the way that you or and let you do what you want while he's out doing whatever he wants. That's not right. That's not a good marriage. I won't stay with my husband if he was controlling. You seriouly need to leave him and find someone who would let you do what you want. It's not fair for him to go out with his friends and not let you go to church or where you want to go. Don't let him control you anymore please leave him. You are better off without someone like that.
2006-12-19 19:04:19 · answer #6 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religion is a personal issue. You should not have to defend yourself for having it. You owe him no explanation for going to church. Don't let him stop you from doing what you need to do. He will eventually see (if you keep going) that it is important to you. If he doesn't... keep going anyway.
2006-12-19 19:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by DitziD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is out cheating with his friends. He doesnt want you to go to church and meet a decent person, because you might leave him. Bottom line.
2006-12-19 19:00:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds like he's insecure with you. he needs to know where you're at all the time.
He sounds like he's controlling your life and you shouldn't let him do so. If he feels like he has the upper hand now, it'll be worst later.
You need to stand up for yourself. Don't let any man or woman tell you what you need to do. That's not how marriages work.
2006-12-19 19:01:27 · answer #9 · answered by The Doctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to throw this out there but someone once told me that the person who is most suspicious is really the one cheating. Are you confident that you can trust him while he is truly showing you that he does not trust you. I just have to add, divorce is not always the answer for those of you who are dumb enough to think it is.
2006-12-19 19:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by Love2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋