Okay well I use to have like 15 friends and now I only have, about 9 or 10. But I don't even do anything to hurt them. Well this girl didn't invite me to her party so I got mad at her. But that's not a good reason.
2006-12-19 10:17:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
One good friend is worth more than ten bad ones.
Sometimes people just drift away without a good reason. No need to worry about it. Be a good friend is all you can do. That you can control.
2006-12-19 10:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by Sky Salad Clipper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had 15 friends and now you have at least 9 or 10 that is good. There will always be people who will change their minds about other people and some of these people take things the wrong way or interpret things or see things in a bad light no matter what the original intention might have been. Don't sweat it. Friends for you should be esy to make since you had so many. The best thing you can do is not to get mad over petty things or small things. Just because you aren't invited to someone's party is no reason to get angry. A person has the right to invite who he or she wants to come. Don't take things so personally. Gvie yourself a break and do those things that make you happy.
2006-12-19 18:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to some new people and get involved in things. It happened to me before and the best thing to do is forgive and forget. If they're mad, talk to them. Spend time with your best friend and they should be there for you. If you don't want to talk to them have your friend do it. I know what it feels like from experience. You can also join clubs and forgive your friends even though it seems you never did anything wrong. Make yourself noticeable and you'll be a lot happier!
2006-12-19 18:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by jennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While friends are important private moments are also. There are alot of parties I have not been invited to. If it really matters to you drop in and say hi and leave. Personally I wouldn't go, get a movie, make some popcorn and get a great bottle of wine and celebrate that I am not having to be laughing and smiling at things that aren't funny.
2006-12-19 18:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone does not invite you they might not be your best friend the 9 or 10 you have keep them close to you and make them know that you care about them
2006-12-19 18:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't understand why you got angry with a girl for not inviting you to her party. So what. Maybe you didn't fit into the crowd or maybe she doesn't have much room to accommodate a lot of people. Money can be a factor as well. It costs money to put on a party.
2006-12-19 18:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of whining ask politely whats going on between you and your frineds.If they dont give you the answer you want then there not your real friends.But if they dont answer at all give it some time maybe they need space.Try and figure out what your doing wrong or ask the person why she didnt invite you before you jump to conclusions.
2006-12-19 18:21:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HON, PEOPLE COME AND PEOPLE GO.
SOMETIMES THEY ARE ONLY IN YOUR LIFE TO HELP YOU GET THROUGH SOMETHING TRAGIC, OR THEY WILL COME INTO YOUR LIFE TO TEACH YOU SOME KIND OF LESSON.
BUT NO MATTER WHAT THEY HAVE TOUCHED YOUR LIFE FOR A REASON, MAYBE THEIR JOB IS NOW DONE.
IF YOU TREAT OTHERS THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE TREATED YOU WILL HAVE NO PROBLEM.
YOU MIGHT JUST BE ASSUMING THEY DON'T WANT TO BE NEAR YOU, REMEMBER ITS XMAS, AND PEOPLE GET REALLY BUSY THIS TIME OF YEAR .
SO DON'T WORRY JUST GIVE THEM SOME TIME, AND THEY WILL COME AROUND AGAIN.
EVEN IF THEY DON'T, DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT.
YOU WILL MAKE 3 FRIENDS TO MAKE UP FOR THAT LAST ONE. I WOULD TRY TO TALK TO HER MAYBE YOU SAID SOMETHING THAT HURT HER FEELINGS, CALL HER AND INQUIRE WHAT HAPPENED, ITS PROBABLY JUST A TERRIBLE MISUNDERSTANDING.
CALL HER BEFORE XMAS.
HAVE A GREAT XMAS AND TAKE CARE
ALSO IF SHE DOESN'T WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND ANYMORE ITS HER LOSS RIGHT.
2006-12-19 18:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by celestialangel43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about what i've done and punish myself LOL i go home cry and eat lots of ice cream or sweets. maybe thats why i'm so curvy... anyway apologize 2 your friend and then ask her why she didn't invite u maybe in the other order just in case u don't like the reason. peace
2006-12-19 18:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by dauschaundlovers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're depressed! don't worry, i've been there! make a list of all your good qualities. Are you funny? Attractive? Smart? Easy to please? What are you good at? List them all. Don't worry about sounding like you're bragging, this list is for your eyes only. After you're done, just look at them all, and you will feel better about yourself! Also, if you feel like this for more than a week on end, you should consider counseling, it really does help! ^.^
2006-12-19 18:24:03 · answer #10 · answered by ~♥Meow♥~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋