I'm 5'2" and 104 lbs, small frame. My husband says i'm too thin and would prefer i weigh about 125. I have weighed 125 before and wasnt happy with it. I'm happy where Im at right now. Do men prefer women with a little extra cushion and for my height, am i too thin? For the record, I do not have an eating disorder. I gradually lost the weight and the heathy way.
2006-12-19 09:45:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You sound like you are very attractive. If you are happy with yourself, that is all that matters!
2006-12-19 09:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
My guess is that you're exactly where you need to be. If your body feels right to you, then stay where you are. Your husband loves you, so remind him that you are comfortable at 104-ish and not 125. ENJOY!
As for the question about guys liking women with a little cushion -- I would rather have some flesh to hug than a bag of bones. ;-)
2006-12-19 09:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by Charlie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think a woman that has some meat to her is more appealing. I see some women who are too thin and they think it makes them look better, but if fact they looked much better before they lost the weight. I would ask an unbiased friend what they think.
I am not certain how you look, but if you are at a healthy weight and look good, then that is all right too and your husband should respect that, but I would discuss it with him. Your husband could be mostly concerned because he is worried about your health, so he might be using another angle to address the issue. Yep, best to discuss it with him and find out what he may really be thinking. Together, I think you can both work it out.
2006-12-19 09:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by Shiva07 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 5'2" and about 130. I think I'm getting a little too much chunk in the belly area but my husband says he likes it. I'd love to be back at 120-125. I do believe 104 is too skinny and could be unappealing, but it's your body.
2006-12-19 11:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by me 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is what is important is that YOU feel good about your self in a manner that gives you confidence.
myself I personally like a little meat on the bones of a woman.
If your husband thinks your too think I think you need to listen to a certain extent as he is one that loves you , additionally maybe adding just a few pounds is a nice compromise
It's your body remember that
2006-12-19 10:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
particular, identity say you're somewhat too skinny for me out of your description. And from fairly some components, it quite is not too undesirable to have in basic terms a splash greater weight on you. i could no longer say a definite volume, yet no longer too lots to positioned on, possibly what you're saying interior the info (one hundred twenty five lbs). yet as long as you're happy with the way you seem, i think it relatively is all that concerns, right?
2016-10-15 06:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by farraj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the man. I prefer the 125 type.
2006-12-19 12:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Weight and appearance are subjective. Looks don't matter to some people, and to others it's everything. A good partner accepts and supports the other person for who they are, not what they'd like them to be. Personally I have learned that attitude is far more important than looks.
2006-12-19 11:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I look at my wife I see the love of my life. Period. I don't see her as fat, or thin. I see her as her. My "image of perfection" is all the memories, all the joys, all the experiences we've shared. What I see when I look at her is that. She's the most beautiful woman in the world to me, because my image of her is colored by so much we have together. 10 or 20 pounds, one way or the other, would never make any difference to me. It shouldn't to you, or to him.
2006-12-19 09:55:51 · answer #9 · answered by antirion 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the size of the guy, seems to me a woman ~80% of her man is a good balance (height and weight).
2006-12-19 13:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by Eponymous 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Skinny women don't do ANYTHING for a brotha like me. Five feet two and 125 might be cool. It just depends on where its on you. Round booty, full breasts and a flat belly and it's all good!
2006-12-19 11:37:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋