How do I tell my mom I entered an acting audition?

Question

I entered an acting audition at www.TalentRock.com, but I can't bring
myself to tell her, but I need to tell before time runs out.

I'm afraid my mom will get pissed off if she finds
out I've been on the computer.

I'm 14 and does include traveling and staying in
expensive hotels, I believe they cover the traveling
expenses. Should I just wait until I'm old enough to
drive myself and enter another another audition?

Answer 1

First of all, did you verify this was a good site to go to? As much as people don't want to listen, I'm going to tell you anyway. There are MANY sites out there that say they are talent agencies and the like and they can be child molesters and lots of other scary people. You should never look for an acting job out of your area either, because chances are if the audition's there, the SHOW'S there too. Why don't you try waiting till you're in high school and acting in school musicals? You will see then how much you like it and how good you are at it. If not look for community theaters, and bellieve me, you have some. They may not be close, but even in the tiny town I live in there was one within 45 minutes. Look for these kinds of places, and not just on the internet. Ask your school music teacher about it. It should be alot easier to tell your mom if your information is reasonable and accurate. I would never ask my mom something like that---it's outrageous. Besides, if she doesn't want you on the computer, how are you going to tell her you signed up? Forget about this one it sounds like a scam to me.

Answer 2

I'm guessing you're still below the age of majority, then?

If you want to piss her off, don't tell her until the last minute. No parent that I've ever known of likes surprises, ultimatums, or having to make up their mind fast because a deadline is approaching that they were unaware of.

You're going to need all that time anyway to convince her, if you think she's going to stop you from doing it, or at least not give her permission. Make a list of all the good things that can possibly come of this, and actually make a list of the negatives as well. Showing that you've carefully weighed this decision and considered both sides will likely impress her with your maturity.

If you're old enough to make this decision on your own, then just do it.

Answer 3

I am almost in the same position, except with my dad, and I'm a girl. He is always trying to convince me to quit dance, and never even came to my recitals or anything. And it's kind of ironic since I was in swimming for 4 years and hated it, haha :) I joined dance because I love it, and I am so much happier than when I was in swim team, even though I was better at swimming than I am in dance (which I will change soon! :)). Anyway, you sound very talented, and please do not give it up! This may sound cheesy, but follow your dreams! At least you will have no regrets. And as for your mom, she may need sometime to just accept the fact that you are a dancer, and I'm sure she does want you as a son! Try just sitting down and talking about how dance (and all the other things not swim-related) are important to you, and not to mention you are good at them. Also tell her how it makes you feel when she compares you to your best friend. Good luck, and hope I helped! :-)

Answer 4

Why is it you are afraid to tell your mom? You must think you have musical talent if you were brave enough to enter, so I would think by now your mother knows you are a talented person. Does it require that she drive you somewhere or that you drive somewhere she would not approve of? Is there a fee you can't afford and need her to pay? Just exactly what do you think her objection would be?
If my talented child thought about doing something like this, I would just try to be supportive.

Answer 5

Is your mom the kind that's like your best friend? Or just a mom? Either way, she's still your mom, and I'd tell her by starting with, "Mom, do you think I should follow my dreams? Cuz...I kinda..." Then tell her. Do it, just do it. You have to show her that you're good if she doesn't think so or needs convincing and point out the pro's, like it'll open more doors and help you be well-rounded, because colleges look for that, not just academics anymore! Good luck!

Answer 6

"Mom i entered an acting audition" whats wrong with that tell her and don't be afraid she is the only one who really love you than you could imagine if she see you insist on doing that she will agree but be polite and patient don't be angry when she say NO but try to talk with her fight for your dream but politely and be calm cause if you get angry she will simply say no along the time and you will be the looser but i suggest something to ask her what about if i want to enter an audition mom?that will be first step and when she answer yes tell her mom i entered but i was afraid to tell you if she say no talk with her politely till she say yes
good luck
and tell me what you'll do?

Answer 7

if u want my advice, and i'm glad there's something on this site that asks for it

Just tell her
simple yet oh so complex......

tell her what u did, why u did it, what u were thinking when u did it, and what u think u'll get out of it (going along with why ud i it)
remember to say "It's a good oppurtunity for me."

She's ur mother she'll accept whatever u do.
GL!

Answer 8

Just come out with the truth. Lying'll only make it harder and dirtier. What show or movie? Email me the answer at: [e-mail]. Thankx! =)

Answer 9

okay, first, tell your mother, "Mom, can I speak to you alone?" or "Mom, I got to tell you something." take a deep breath, and just say it. She might be angry, or pleased, but you have to tell her. Also, you can write out your thoughts in a letter, it you have a mailbox, put it in there, or on her pillow, and wait!

Answer 10

"Mom i entered an acting audition"