My friend (Z) and I have lived together for 6 weeks summer program. It was fine. We decided this year to live together all year becuz we got along well, went out together, and we were both clean. Within 3 months, we were constantly having issues. I live in a college dorm. In out suite there are 2 bedrooms. 2 girls in each room. Our suitemates--One moved out becuz of a verbal altercation and other issues she had with Z. the other suitemate went abroad. Me and Z have not been speaking to each other since Nov. there is no way we can be friends again. During our little fight, she has said things like, im crazy, and i do things on purpose to get her mad, and that im a weirdo. Honestly I dont care wat she says anymore. Ive had it with her. i dont want to work it out. i am waiting to get a room transfer but it hasnt happened yet. in the mean time ive started sleeping in the other room ( that my suitemates moved out of). its awkward being in the same dorm with her. she is a bully.
2006-12-19
09:21:32
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she is consistently inconsiderate - has friends over until 2-3am in our room.
goes out and comes back at like 4am with ppl, and they are very loud, laughing and screaming.
she is selfish, keeping paper plates, cups etc, in our clothes closet.
and she is rude. She is one of those glamourous diva types, and im just sick of it. at the same time. She basically has this SHITLIST, and once you do something to her, you are screwed for life. at one point we were friends, then this happened, and during this my grandmother passed, and SHE never showed concern. she is a bully, and im not like that, I dont get mad very easily, i dont like to argue, i dont even wanna talk things out with her, becuz im afraid that it will escalate. i hate living with her. also shell say things to ppl on the phone so that i can hear her, and shell talk abt me. and i thinks its sooo obnoxious. what should i do to stay SANE. and NOT kill her this winter break, as we will BOTH be here, all throughout the break
2006-12-19
09:29:04 ·
update #1