2006-12-19 09:00:58 · 55 answers · asked by alison h 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
start worrying when you see him on one of the sites he visits
2006-12-19 09:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by ploppy pants 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be calm and ask him if he found the gay site interesting and talk to him about it. If he admits to being gay or bi then you have to decide whether you want to remain just friends with him or agree to part. Don't put pressure on him otherwise he will strongly deny being gay or interested in gays. As with any problem just sit down and talk calmly and you will get more out of him. Also note how he is with other male friends or whether he looks at other males when out with you.
2006-12-19 20:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask him is he gay, thats rule #1. But ask him, if he was interesetd in other ppl, be it men or women, would he tell you? If he says no, then you know your answer. If he says yes, then let him know that you found a few gay sites on his computer and you were just curious to know if he was interested, if he gets argumentative drop the subject, because its evidnet that he does like men and wonen, if he doesnt and talk to you calmly about it, he may not be bi sexual.
2006-12-19 10:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by jlassier90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it, try to find out why. The reasons behind this may, or may not be a problem depending on how you both deal with it, but if you do not both have an open, honest, and supportive (that is both ways) discussion this will develop into a problem.
Tricky ground that is going to be very hard for you, but you are going to have to be sensitive too.
2006-12-19 21:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by tysonian22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be gay, and you might be in trouble. But, he also might just be doing some research. Find out more, then come back, I'll have the for sure answer if I know just a little bit more... lol!
2006-12-19 09:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by §~You can't judge me!~§ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Having a look at gay sites doesn't make him gay.
Just as looking at Formula 1 sites doesn't make him Michael Schumaker.
You could try talking to him about it?
2006-12-19 09:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by mcfifi 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what sites he goes to, I go to the history channel website but I am no historian.
2006-12-19 11:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are they woman-woman gay sites or man-man gay sites?
2006-12-19 09:02:46 · answer #8 · answered by motorcitysmadman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this a one off or has it happened a couple times. When looking at porn it can bring up other screens that you dont want "pop ups".
Just talk to him, I think you would know from his reaction
2006-12-19 23:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by benn26k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about it. What do you have to lose. It might just be simple curiosity or not. But it's better to find out sooner rather than later.
2006-12-19 09:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by Broken hearted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I depends on how you foud out. How about askig him about it and see his reaction. He may just be curious or there may be another reason for it. If you can;t talk openly to him about it, then there probably isnt much future in your relationship anyway.
2006-12-19 09:04:11 · answer #11 · answered by Star 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋