I always see people that are famous, and kids at school and they're so pretty. I don't feel that way. How come? I wonder if I really am beautiful ... I always see gorgeous girls on TV and magazines, and admire them, wishing I could look like that ... knowing it'll never happen. What's wrong with me?
2006-12-19 08:58:49 · 31 answers · asked by Gorgeous LiL Angel ! 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Many people have self-confidence and self-esteem issues, and the first thing I can tell you to do is STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS. For one thing, beauty is very much in the eye of the beholder. You look at one girl and think she's gorgeous, while someone else is probably looking at the same girl and thinking otherwise. Heck, while you're admiring other girls there's more than likely some that are admiring something about you! Remember that. Also, personality matters the most. It might not seem like it when other girls are getting hit on by guys or getting more attention, but if these girls don't have the great personality to back up their looks then the attention won't last but so long. You don't want to be known as just a pretty face anyway. You want to be known as a girl with substance. As far as wondering if you're beautiful, stop wondering. As corny as this sounds, tell yourself that you are beautiful. Believe it or not, great self-confidence changes how you carry yourself and how others see you as well. There are some people that aren't what some would call beautiful or handsome at first look, but their charisma, charm, and confidence makes them pleasing to be around and makes them seem beautiful. On a final note, there are many people in the world that have physical deformities that lead to them being ridiculed, gawked at, teased, etc. Be thankful that you weren't born with or haven't had an accident that caused such a thing to happen to you. There are many in the world that are much worse-off than you are. Beauty isn't everything in life. Being a kind, humble, and productive member of society is much more important.
2006-12-19 09:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats normal. NOTHING is wrong with you. All of us girls see someone who we think is gorgeous and think wow, i wish i could look like them. They key to being a gorgeous and beautiful girl though is just being yourself. Don't get yourself down because you don't look like those girls on the magazines or on TV, do you ever think about how many hours they go through with makeup and hair? If all of us spent about 8 hours in the makeup room using the best makeup,airbrush and whatever we'd all be gorgeous. Low self esteem is never a good thing to have. There is something beautiful in all of us. You just have to realize its there to feel good about yourself. So what your feeling in 100% normal.
2006-12-19 09:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by Em 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only one thing that is wrong with you! You sound very beautiful but without the confidence to use it. Next time you look in the mirror, tell yourself that you are beautiful. Make yourself believe it! You might as well as you are! Keep telling yourself this. Get a diary and write down your positive thoughts. Allow yourself to be a bit more vain. If you have a bad day, treat yourself to some make-up and put on a funny film to erase the bad mood.
In a week, you'll feel a huge difference!
The best thing a lady can wear on her face is a smile. Treasure it and use it as often as you can.
Remember - you're beautiful!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-19 09:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking at the wrong people. Stop comparing yourself to the fake actors and the touched up magazines! God made you perfect in every way- he does not make junk, and there is a purpose for your life. What would you tell your daughter if she said she felt like she did not compare to Hollywood? You need to talk to yourself and say positive things to yourself. What goes in is what come out.
Paste your picture to your mirror and say out loud everyday, I am beautiful, inside and out. I am loved, I am important and I am worth getting to know because I am special.
After that- go focus on other people.
2006-12-19 09:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by northville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all begins with you. If you believe you are beautiful and have a positive attitude People will view you as that. But beauty is not everything. I use to be a tom boy and hung out with all kinds of people, I could trust them, and had more fun. As soon as I turned into a gurly girl I had haters all on my back, friends started getting jealous because there men were looking my way and dudes attitudes towards me started to change. They were no longer looking at who I really was but were paying attention to how good I looked. Now its hard to judge who are and who are not my real friends.
2006-12-19 09:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Denise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you! We all see people that we think are beautiful or that we admire. What you have to understand is there are people out there that very likely think that you are beautiful and would like to look more like you. It is very important to realize that what makes you truely beautiful is the person that you are. The daughter, friend, sister.....when you are a good person, that shines through and makes you very attractive.
2006-12-19 09:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by Ginger P 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your username is lying then? Beauty is both objective and subjective, depending on who is answering. There is a set standard for beauty that most of us recognize (ex: eyes this far apart, nose this wide, lips this plump etc.), but there is also a kind of beauty that changes with culture and by the person judging. Nearly everyone is found to be attractive by at least a few other people, so don't bother yourself about it too much.
2006-12-19 09:07:46 · answer #7 · answered by reverenceofme 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing wrong with you. That's completely normal. We all feel like that at times. Just remember that you're unique. Everyone is unique. Those girls on Tv dont feel as pretty as you think they are either, trust me. Everyone wants to change something about themself. You've just got to remember that you're the only you and that you cant be that person on tv or at your school so make everyone notice YOU. The more confident you feel about yourself the more people are gonna think you're beautiful
2006-12-19 09:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have fallen victim to the cult of "beauty," and unless you learn to love yourself for who you are and not what you look like, you are in for a long, miserable life.
Do not read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly.
Do not rely on others for your self-worth, they will only make you feel worthless.
Love yourself, and accept who you are as being made in God's image and likeness. Know that physical beauty lasts only so long, and that all physical things are doomed to death and decay. Only the beauty of the soul really matters, and anyone who says different is to be ignored.
2006-12-19 09:03:24 · answer #9 · answered by jbtascam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I Get A Kiss From That Speciall Someone <33
2016-05-22 21:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋