have you dealt with issues, such as an affair or some other trouble? have you decided not to give up and fight for what you have? please tell me and how long you separated for and how you got through it?
2006-12-19 08:36:32 · 10 answers · asked by uklady26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I kicked the cheating ex out and told him he's lost his damn mind if he thinks I'm settling for him. It ain't gonna happen and he found out I wasn't kidding. He wasn't worth fighting for, those other women could have him.
2006-12-19 08:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Married 5 years 2 kids troubles began
Married 7 years wife stared an affair
Married 8 years I kicked her out (separated)
Married 8 years while separate I date openly dated
Married 8 years separated our finances
Married 8 years wife found out that the other man didn't want to keep her
Married 8 years wife learned how hard and lonely it is to be by yourself
Married almost 9 years child goes to hospital
Married almost 9 years wife and I start talking
Married 9 years wife and I spending time together
Married 9 years wife and I start dating
Married 10 years wife and I back together
Married 10 years our finances are still separated she is responsible for her stuff and I'll responsible for my stuff
Married 10 years we have a shared acct for shared bills each of us put in half.
Married 11 years wife and I choose to still be together every day and know that is why we are together
Married almost 12 years still together
Only advice, the stronger you are on your own the better a couple you will make.
2006-12-19 09:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After just one year of marriage(we had a baby too) my husband had an affair with a slapper he met in a night club.
I found out and throw him out. But as I loved him so much we got back together again after a few days.
He then went back to the slapper so I told him that he can leave and don't come back.
I then found out I was pregnant and hubby realised the grass wasn't greener and wanted to come home to be with his family.
As I was pregnant and had a 18mth old and I still loved him he came home.
Since then we could not be stronger, we have had another baby (we have 3), moved home and we still look back at what happened.
We have been together 13 years now, still very much in love. It was very hard work but I truly believe it was worth it.
The best way to get through any difficulties is communication, don't stop talking, say what needs to be said don't bottle it all up.
2006-12-20 03:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by ***Missy*** 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He beat me once almost killed me, called the cops on him, they removed him from our home. During the two weeks we were separated I never gave up on him and I found out later on after we got back together that he never gave up on me either. When people tried to interfere I told them to mind their own business I can make up my own mind - thank you very much. I made up my mind we were going to get back together and the first time we sat down I had a little chat with him. Told him right out that I loved him and if I didn't call the cops on him that proved right then and there I was a liar and I wasn't about to be that, he had to take it or leave it.
That was quite a few years ago and today we are more in love than ever and we do not speak of the past as a reminder. Also after we reconcilled he had to go to marriage classes or anger control classes or something like that for a year as was ordered by the judge.
2006-12-19 11:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,when found out my husband had cheated on me,Iwas devastated,heart broken,didn't understand why! Anyway,I had asked him if that was worth we had,because I had no reason to doubt myself as a wife!To enlighten you, our baby was only two months old when he decided that I was giving the baby too much attention.Excuses,but I end up moving out and staying gone for about 2 or 3 weeks.It took a very long time for me to forgive him,and now our baby is 3yrs. old!Even now I often look at him,like "how could you?"What helped us was prayer and us believing in God!Our love had never changed for each other,but our lack of communication almost destroyed us!!
2006-12-19 09:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by hot chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my wife cheated on each other when we were just dating in high school we broke up for a year i asked if we could have another chance and we agreed not to ever bring up the past got back together 2 weeks later we were married and I'm happy to say its been 2 years
2006-12-19 08:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by pamela_jake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
particular I even have. My bf left me through fact I had severe have faith subjects with adult adult males and he basically couldnt take me asking him if he's being dedicated or no longer. he gave me possibility after possibility and that i basically couldnt get it out of my head he might finally cheat on me or did already. As for family members nonetheless, i wouldn't in any respect ever turn my head on a family members member, it quite is basically diverse.
2016-10-15 06:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
8eights separated back togather now 6months. Married 7. Togather 10. 1 child. I had no proof he had sex with her. I just know they talked on the phone. That pissed me off. So I put him out. He cried, begged I was still mad, I don't know one day something told me I was being stupid. So took him back. Believe me he knows wat time it is now. Everyone deserve a second chance. We all make mistakes, and after 10 yrs that's all I had on him. So wat the hell he showed me he loved me still, and I still loved him. So wish us well, I'll do the same for u.
p:s follow her heart not your mind. Your mind can play tricks on u.
2006-12-19 08:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, the getting back together onlt hapens in the movies. Just too many issues to deal with !
2006-12-19 08:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by gozedown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but we divorced years later . It's a good thing too cuz I wanted to have him put to sleep!
2006-12-19 11:01:11 · answer #10 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋