2006-12-19 08:29:05 · 14 answers · asked by jwny822 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
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2006-12-19 08:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by b&g4me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you been experiencing stress in the past years? allow me to bring this to your attention... when you first tried to conceive and realized it was talking a long time do you feel this became a worry for you something you put thought into which possibly leaded into stress? this might be your problem which can be fixed... most ppl will say see a doctor but i will suggest something before taking that step... let me explain to you that when a person has been stressing for a long time in some way it creates a pattern in your mind which affects your body as well....a negative pattern might be taking place and is not allowing you to be pregnant. its reality dear. my suggestion is to meditate 3 times a week for at least 15 min. research yoga and try it...i strongly recommend this for you and your partner and i assure you everything will be fine and you'll finally have your baby.... its all in your mind and its an extrememly great way to overcome obsticles to accomplish your goals (anything you set your mind too). seeing a doctor can built stress or tension which you are trying to avoid...this is why i recommend relaxing and theres many ways to release daily stress that seems minor but yet can be harmful. good luck to you have a great day
2006-12-19 16:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by CALI GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've went to the doctor and they have said nothing as wrong, as hard as it sounds relax and have fun. It took me 6 years and I am now 12 weeks pregnant. It was only when we thought we could never get pregnant that it happened. How unusual is that? But I had more fun. We tried everything from ovulation test kits, to bbt and all that jazz. I hope this helps. And just so you know it is much easier said than done when it comes to just letting it happen. But when you do it seems like it just happens.
2006-12-19 16:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax! First make sure your thyroid is functioning properly. Then, relax! I love to tell this story, so please bear with me. Years ago, a friend of mine told me that she and her husband had been trying, unsuccessfully, to have a baby for the last 15 years. They'd tried everything: fertility doctors, invitro, artificial insemmination, etc. She was not a religious person at all, and I was understanding of that. I told her I thought she was frustrating her marriage, and that she needed to relax. I encouraged her to say a little prayer, asking God to help her accept His will, whatever that may be: baby or no baby. To my surprise, she did it! 6 months later she was pregnant. Delivered a healthy baby boy totally naturally. So, my advice to you is the same: relax and pray for acceptance of His will.
2006-12-19 17:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by c s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not clear from your answer whether or not you've been to an OB-GYN who specializes in infertility. You should definitely make an appointment with one right away to explore your options! Your husband should get tested, too, by his regular family doctor because he might have a low sperm count or low sperm motility.
If you've already exhausted the medical intervention route, and either ruled out or tried IVF, etc., then there is always adoption and possibly surrogacy.
2006-12-19 16:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by EmLa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it can take up to a year, it's all about the timing, sometimes it helps to forget about getting pregnant, pretent to stop trying and see. If it goes over a year you may need to have you hormone leavels checked, and a sprem count done on your partner.
2006-12-19 16:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by Jody 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to the Dr and get your Thyroid tested--Progesterone tested--prolactin tested--you need to see if your tubes are blocked and your Husband needs to have his sprem checked also--There are many reasons why you may not beable to conceive--BUT your Dr needs to do some testing to find out what is going on--Make an appt right away
2006-12-19 16:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by mommyof3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not conceiving naturally, then why not adopt? You could also do invitro, it's up to you. But if you are in a position to help a child that is already in this world, then you should.
Goodluck!
2006-12-19 16:33:44 · answer #8 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel. i tried for 6 years then i just gave up. my husbands plant closed in June and we had to move out of state and two weeks after i got here i found out i was pregnant so sometimes it helps to just forget about it and it will happen. good luck and i will keep you in my prayers.
2006-12-19 17:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a fertility Doctor
2006-12-19 16:32:09 · answer #10 · answered by April B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋