How far inside is a guy's prostate gland?

Question

My boyfriend is highly anal-erotic, but I have short fingers, so I'm afraid I'll never to be able to find or reach it. Is his prostate farther inside him (comparitively) than a girl's g-spot?

Any tips?

Answer 1

Hmmmm... Very nice! Maybe you'll find something useful in here:

*n*L S*X INTRO:
Introducing Anal Sex
(http://www.allsexguide.com/anal_sex_intro.htm)
There is a very large misconception that anal sex is only enjoyed by gay men. As a result of this misconception, any heterosexual man who is curious or knows he desires anal play, may be depriving oneself out of fear that others will think that he must really be gay or have homosexual tendencies. That could not be farther from the truth!

Millions of heterosexual women and men love to partake in anal play. By anal play, I mean rimming, having a finger up the *** while you’re getting a *******, inserting butt plugs, dildos, holding a vibrator around the opening, or rubbing the opening with your finger. And this area of the body should not be ignored when one is indulging. This is a very sensitive area, that when given the proper attention, can bring one to a new world of ecstasy.

Now, you must be careful when partaking in such an activity, because the membranes that line the anal cavity are so very delicate. Make sure that the area is well lubricated. A special product designed for anal use (and is one of my absolute favorites) is Doc Johnson's Anal Lube.

Now, for you anal virgins, you don’t need to penetrate on the first go round. Use your fingers to massage, rub and tickle the area. The key is to start slow, be patient and try to relax. Remember this is supposed to be an enjoyable activity. Communication is absolutely essential with your partner. Let him or her know what feels good and when he or she can go further.

Once you reach a comfortable point, you may try a little penetration. If you use your fingers, please make sure that you take all safe sex precautions: finger cots, latex gloves, etc.) If you know your partner well and don’t feel there’s a need, then make sure your fingernails are well groomed and free from any rough edges that may scrape or cut this delicate lining.

The best things to use, and the safest for the inexperienced, are the many rubber insertion devices that are made for this purpose. There are many kits for beginners. Oh, just another safety note. If you decide to use a device not specifically meant for anal penetration, make sure it has a wide end on it so that the object can’t slip into the entire cavity. (Unfortunately, it has been known to happen.) Be smart, use common sense and you’ll be okay.

I can’t stress the importance of communicating this desire with your partner. You never know, maybe your partner is just as interested as you and you’ll both be on your way to a new world of sexual encounters. And for all those who have been approached with the situation and have been turned away by it, I can guarantee it’s been out of ignorance. So many people out there believe it is taboo to partake in such an act. Those seeking more info should watch Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex For Women or Nina Hartley's Guide to Anal Sex. Share this knowledge with your partner. Understanding may lead to giving it a shot. I hope this article has helped you in understanding what a wonderful addition anal play can be to your sex life. Remember sex is even more fun when it’s really dirty!

MISCONCEPTIONS:

Does anal sex hurt? There is absolutely no reason why anal sex should be a painful or traumatic experience. It has been said that many of us carry a lot of tension in our lower bodies, making the anus an even more sensitive an area. Anal play can relieve some of this tension. If you stay in tune with your body, during this type of play, you can actually develop muscle leading to more intense orgasms. A warm bath may help to relax not only the area, but your whole being as well. If for any reason, you do begin to feel pain, restrain from inserting any further, wait a moment and slowly pull out. But if you take it slow, you should have no problem.

Is there any special cleansing I should do before having anal sex?
If you or your partner is very concerned about hygiene, a small enema can be used. It is important to only use lukewarm water because if the water is too hot or too cold it could damage the lining or cause painful cramps. Remember, if you give yourself an enema, give yourself some time to release the liquid. Some people need half an hour, others need much longer. But if you do want to give yourself an enema, make sure you know what your doing.

Does anal sex cause hemorrhoids or incontinence?
No, this is just an folk tale. Hemorrhoids are usually the result of a poor diet, constipation or diarrhea. After any kind of anal penetration, your anus will feel very wet and not as tight as normal, but it will feel normal by morning. In the morning, you shouldn’t feel any different.

Are there any techniques to make anal penetration go smoothly?
As I said before, constant communication with your partner and patience is very important. Some people find it easier to masturbate or have their partner also stimulate their genitals at the same time. There are no rules, do what feels good. Anal penetration isn’t something you do first. If you’re just beginning, engage in the foreplay you like and are comfortable with and slowly move into anal play. You’ll find it’s much easier to get into if you’re already well excited.

Answer 2

It's only a finger's length. Doctors always use their middle finger and they always find it when you are bent over and helping him by spreading your cheeks if you are not skinny. An easier way to find it is when the guy is on his back with his knees to his chest (forming the letter Z). Even a short finger can reach it then.

Answer 3

okay.!!! very nice adivces ur gonna get on yahoo answers! but one thing before u make any harsh moves over ur BF's anal area...i would get a nice manicure to ur nails and keep'em cleaner as possible all the times....and in the end yes male g-spot is at the same position it would be with a female but the main reason that u cannot reach it nicely is that its in kinda curved area ....and for that u gotta get some nice lube and some really tricky fingers...or if nothing than try some anal beads or something......

Answer 4

..i just had an examination at the doctors . he felt it with his finger and said it was OK so that's where it is - the length of a finger.It was not a nice feeling but necessary.I hope it doesen't feel the same for a woman when having sex. If so , i can understand why they get headaches sometimes and just wont cooperate.

Answer 5

It's not that deep. You just have to finger your way around

Answer 6

Hemorrhoids are associated with constipation and straining at bowel movements. How to get rid of hemorrhoids https://tr.im/Vc32P
Pregnancy is also associated with hemorrhoids. These conditions lead to increased pressure within the hemorrhoidal veins that causes them to swell. Other conditions, for example chronic liver disease, may also cause increased venous pressure and may be associated with hemorrhoids. Hemorrhoids are very common and are estimated to occur in up to one-half of the population by age 50.

Answer 7

It's easily accessible by using the index finger. Just make sure, for his sake, that you don't have fake nails!

Answer 8

About 3 inches. And who says you have to use your finger?

Answer 9

http://www.umm.edu/prostate/panat.htm

Answer 10

6 inches.