Over things that really don't even matter. She always made herself up to be someone she isn't. Like where she lived,where she went to school(or even going to school), and even where she worked. She was my best friend, I thought I could trust her now I feel fooled and betrayed. I still love her though and want to help her I just don't know what to do? Should I just move on from the friendship or just try to help her out and hope one day she'll be open and honest with me?
2006-12-19 08:19:46 · 7 answers · asked by Em 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Some people are chronic liars, and they never change even with treatment.
Some people lie because they want to feel important and look good in other people's eyes. it is done to impress people.
I could not stand being around someone who spins so many tales about her life.
You can't help her.
Have you told her how you feel?? How it bugs you and you are tired of it??
Maybe it is time to give her a reality check.
If she doesn't clean up her act, I think I would move on to some new people.
I wouldn't want to be around someone you couldn't trust to speak the truth.
This is very immature and she will find herself in trouble one day with the wrong people....
2006-12-19 08:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am facing the same thing at the momemt and have found that when everything about a person is based on a lie that it is hard to make them stop. I have confronted my friend about this but there was just another lie to cover why he lies. we were the best of friends, so close that i would have trusted him with my life and now i wouldnt trust him with a snake. it hurts so much trying to be abest friend and being lied to all the times so i am trying to stay away from him until the friendship just fades out but still i cant help doing for him because i love him just as you do your friend. when ever we talk i just say dont lie tell me the truth or say nothing i know he gets mad but i cant stand the lies. i want the friendship, but a honest one. just find out as much as you can of what is the truth and let them know that you love them but you cant be their friend if they wont be honest at least with you.
2006-12-19 08:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by desiree_tx2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people tell so much b/s they believe it themselves... how can you believe anything that she might tell you. She has an issue with acceptance from others obviously... and that's too bad that with the stories she tells she makes them accept someone else anyway. Move on, I mean do you really have the time to sit and constantly sort out the truth from the bull? That can sure be time consuming.
2006-12-19 08:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately nothing can be done about this. Personally I believe these people have a chemical imbalance. I have a family member with this prob and she has admitted that she can't help herself. Might be some type of depression.
2006-12-19 08:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by KLR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes a pathological liar, you cant change her. But since you no longer trust her, make sure she knows that. Theres a small possibility that she will try to change for you, but it wont be easy and youll have to give her time. have some heart to heart talks about it.
good luck.
2006-12-19 08:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should sit down with her and tell her that you feel fooled and betrayed and see if that changes anything. if it doesn't then stop being her friend.
2006-12-19 08:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her on her lies with proof.
2006-12-19 08:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by v 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋