2006-12-19 08:18:20 · 33 answers · asked by _ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no way bro. get a divorce first...
2006-12-19 08:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by JACK 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I read most of the replies and they concern getting caught, not feeling guilt. You can feel guilt for cheating even if you and the person you cheated with are the only people who know. In this case I believe a lot of times that guilt does go away, especially if you get away with it. Cheating is just like most everything else, the more you do it the easier it gets.
2006-12-19 08:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by This is lame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guilt of cheating can go away if the deeper reasons behind the cheating are dealt with. This may mean confessing. As long as you lie about it to ANYone the guilt will remain.
2006-12-19 08:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guilt of cheating goes away and is replaced by regret.
2006-12-19 08:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by jonesty1284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually... it gets easier with each time you do it...
Sad, but true. The first time will be guilt like you wont believe it... but, each consecuative time, they start to rationalize it and make better excuses on why its happening.
Then, they dont even think about it, just are extra cautious on how not to get caught.
And, when they "do" get caught, its ALWAYS going to be the "other partners" fault!!! (Always the common cop-out).
The guilt is always there for a time, until there are too many times, then its replaced by other emotions...(fear of getting caught, because they dont want a divorce, because they are happy in thier present situation).
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-12-19 08:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me...no its doesnt. i live next door to the guy i cheated on my bf with. and the guilt NEVER goes away. maybe its because i know my boyfriend...acutally fiance...is the man of my dreams and it makes me hurt worse when i look at him and think that i hurt him the way i did. we all make mistakes and time will heal. but it will never cure it. live and learn.
i hope everything works out for you. if you need more help...e-mail or IM me!
2006-12-19 08:26:19 · answer #6 · answered by sweetangel131989 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For as long as you have truly accepted that what you did was a terrible mistake and you are sorry for it. Ask God for forgiveness.This will lighten your load. Learn from this and never repeat it. Leave the past and work for the future! It will go away in time.
2006-12-19 08:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long story short, we have both cheated, yes it goes away, but we had to work our butts off to get back to where we needed to be
2006-12-19 08:21:17 · answer #8 · answered by teresadick30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your spouse and were just seeking a good time, it will rear its ugly head from time to time. I will tell you this though. The short-lived thrill you get from cheating is certainly not worth the bottomless pit of pain you will cause your spouse, your children and yourself if the affair leads to a divorce.
Trust me.
2006-12-19 08:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by Steven K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if u r an insensitive person. it should bother u you should feel guilty for cheating but guilt can also bring along change.
2006-12-19 08:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he may have been saying that the more you cheat the more it eats away your soul, until you have no conscience left to feel guilty.
2006-12-19 08:35:01 · answer #11 · answered by yeaney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋