What should I do???

Question

I am a really caring guy and there is this girl I like, We are both sophmores and have known each other a long time and we both know we like each other. She is mostly "anti touch " she was when I met her and for alittle while after. but we have grown closer and i really like her, but I think she will not like to hold hands or hug, and I respect her so I don't. even though I am a more touchy kind of guy. and I mean with everybody I always love hugs any time from most anyone.SO WHAT SHOULD i DO TO GROW CLOSTER IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. and I want mature answers, and please do not mention sex I am saving that for marraige.

Answer 1

The key to a good relationship is communication. You are going to have to talk about what makes her uncomfortable with holding hands or hugging and if that isn't something you can work on together. I'm sure she has her reasons and once you know those you will both come up with something that makes you both happy. Don't push her and don't get frustrated with her because she will only grow farther apart from you and may start to not even talk to you let alone touch you. Anything worth while takes time, so take the time to make things comfortable and appealing to her.

Answer 2

Do you think she is anit touch because of a reason or is she really not wanting to let anyone get close to her and she won't get hurt this way? Sorry, I think this way. I think it is hard when you don't want someone to touch you when there isn't a more natural way to show your love than with touching, ex: hugging, kissing, holding hands, etc... have you told her striaght out that you really like her? maybe she isn't knowing how to act either. Talk, communicate, that is the best way to learn about her and the way she is, her likes, dislikes, etc.... go out on a date and treat her good and show her that you really like her and want a relationship with her. You never know till you try!
Best of Luck!