Is it appropriate to walk up to a girl when she is dancing with her friends and grind with her?

Question

What is the proper way to get her to grind with you?

Answer 1

Check out her body language..and her eye contact with you. You will get a signal from that on whether you should proceed or back off. Dont come off as too aggressive so that you may scare her off. Just be confident and give her a sexy smile and let things progress naturally.....dont add pressure and your in!!!

Answer 2

In this instance, no it is not appropriate. There was no criminal intent by the persons responsible for printing and distributing the yearbook. Nor was there any criminal intent by anyone who received the yearbook. In fact I doubt that the majority of the students or the school community would have noticed what was in the background of one single picture, if this situation had not been blown up all out of proportion. (A picture taken at a school dance is rarely of interest to anyone who isn't either in it, or a friend or relative of someone who is in the picture.) Also, I feel there is a gross difference between pornography and a picture of two teenagers making out. Maybe the picture would be offensive to some people, but honestly, I remember seeing and reading worse in Dolly Magazine when I was a kid. (An Australian magazine, aimed at adolescent girls.) I don't know what the exact laws are in the United States, but in South Australia, the laws governing child pornography are quite harsh. The offender, regardless of their age, will have their names placed on a child sex offenders register, where they will stay for life. This prevents them from ever working with or near children, and they cannot live within 200 metres of a school or child care centre. I agree with those laws to an extent - yes, children should be protected from harm as much as possible. However, the law as it stands means that several juveniles have already been charged and their names placed on that register for sexting. This means that they are virtually unemployable once they leave school and will have a huge impact on the rest of their lives. I think that education, or in extreme cases, being charged without being entered on the child sex offenders register, would be the more appropriate response. I think that sexting is a dumb thing to do, but I don't think it's right that that person should be treated in the same manner as an adult sex offender. Finally, in the case of the yearbook, it seems that the whole thing has blown out of proportion. As I said, there was no criminal intent on behalf of anyone who received a yearbook - it was distributed as a memory of that particular year at school, not as an excuse to distribute child pornography.

Answer 3

Not, unless she makes eye contact with you more than once, and upon approaching her, slowly so as not to scare her away, or turn her off to your style, you ask her if she would like to dance with you or if you could dance with her (yes there is a difference) , if she accepts and the vibe puts the two of you in the grind, well then so be it. . . But there is NOTHING more irritating to me than a guy coming up and grinding his !@#$ up in my bootay area when I was doing just fine on my own, I really do much prefer to dance alone, that way I don't have to worry about following the lead of anyone. Plus I have more fun dancing alone.

Answer 4

You gotta play it smooth. Just be confident, but not too cocky. Asking her in a suave, yet polite way if she would like to dance is good for starters. Then you can determine from her body language if she'll let you bump & grind. You can't just go up to a girl and grind on her. Though with some girls you might get away with it. Play it cool, try making eye contact first to get a visual response. She might just give you that "Come hither" look.

Hope this helps you out on the dance floor!

Answer 5

Just walk up to her and start dancing. Shell let u know if she dont wanna grind with u

Answer 6

How would you like it if some guy come up and started grinding on you?

Answer 7

So this is what dancing has deteriorated to? You walk up to a stranger and start grinding your crotch into their butt? Do you exchange money for that privilege? It really makes me wonder what the hell is wrong with society these days, if that sort of thing is standard social behavior.

Answer 8

no its kinda rude. the best way is to buy her a drink and start dancing with her closer and closer and let her grind against you.

Answer 9

Is grinding ever appropriate?

Answer 10

From my experience, most girls say they don't like it when guys just walk up, but that usually works anyway, no problems so long as you're a good dancer and you aren't too gropey...I try to come up on the side so as not to shock her and then move in.