I wear LARGE coaster sized hoop earrings and a nice denum jacket that I love so much. my hair is done and when open my mouth to speak people talk about meand say I'm weird. What would you do?
2006-12-19 07:22:55 · 10 answers · asked by Kana 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I don't totally understand your question. Do you mean they think you dress weird or it's more to do with how you talk? Because it sounds like you're saying you're dressed very well, but people still don't accept you. Here's what I think, but I'm just guessing based on the fact that I was that kind of kid who had lots of style but was considered "weird". You're a very visually oriented person. You think everyone is judging you by how you look. There's some truth in that, but mainly because they're jealous and think you should look like everyone else. More than that, they think you should talk like everyone else. Basically what it boils down to is they're mean and have no imagination. Don't change for others, just try not to let them get to you. It gets easier when you're older.
2006-12-19 07:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was judged too, people thought I was stuck up, but I was shy. I found that when you ask questions about the other person they think you are a great conversationalist. How can they think you are weird when they are talking about themselves? Questions to ask in F.O.R.M., Ask about their Family, how big it is, where they live, and so on...Ask about their Occupation, what do they do, do they like their job, would they rather be doing something else....Ask about their Recreational interests, do they ski, love the water, play sports, what do they like to do on weekends... and then there is the M. What was the last magazine they read? What did they find interesting about it>
Do this- and you will be popular. Only talk about yourself if they ask.
Read- that will expand your horizens. One recommended book- HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE
2006-12-19 08:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by northville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they dont put food on your table, clothes on your back, or money in your pocket screw them and what they think. People see something in you they envy or wish they had and there going to be haters. Let them hate and let that motivate you. Weird people are the coolest. Hanging around a bunch of people who act the same is no fun. Me personally i sure as hell wouldnt let them see that im bothered by it. Ignore them. theyll probably go from calling you weird to callin your stuck up but like i said before screw um.
2006-12-19 07:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by meka g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went though the same thing when i was growing up and i would cry a lot its hard and why they do that i haven't figured it out but let me tell you something my mom told me when i was your age if you are cleaned and very welled mannered and you love your self don't worry about other children what they say their is something about you that is very special and they wish they were like you believe me stay the way you are
2006-12-19 07:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by darlene l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time when people call you weird its because you have or do something they don't understand. They are too juvenile to ask you about it so they make themselves feel better by calling you a name.
If they are just people who don't matter much in your world...ignore them and just be you!!!
I'm heavily tattooed and lots of people call me weird, if they aren't important people to me (and people who love me don't call me names) I ignore them....they don't matter.
2006-12-19 07:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by Loli M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, don't worry about them! They have nothing better to do or nothing more interesting in their lives going on that they have to spread hatred?? Consider yourself lucky that you have manners and let them be their bitchy selves.
2006-12-19 07:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the saying, you should never judge a book by its cover....so never mind them
2006-12-19 07:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by smoothlova1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can so easily offend people without even realizing it, and you sound a ltitle full of yourself, so that's what could be turning people off.
Good luck!
2006-12-19 07:46:12 · answer #8 · answered by Girl With Kaleidescope Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
BE YOUR OWN PERSON AND DON'T CARE ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK. NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO YOU WILL ALWAYS BE JUDGED BY OTHERS.
JUST KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND STAY STRONG
2006-12-19 07:34:21 · answer #9 · answered by monalisa_505 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let them know it dosn't matter what is on the outside it is what is in the inside.
2006-12-19 07:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋