im single got my house for sale my ex wife hates me and i have left my job what do i do next
2006-12-19 07:21:48 · 38 answers · asked by grrydvdsn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Travel. Take all the money you have and what you get from that house and travel. Be alone for like a year and then go seek a good job, a new place to live and start over. But do something for yourself first.
2006-12-19 07:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is next? Get some help, because it sounds like you are heading deep into depression!
Realize that you will have another woman in your life sooner or later, use this time to heal and better yourself. Get another job, going to work everyday may seem like a chore now, but it will give you something to do with your time and give your brain a rest from thinking all the negatives. Find a support group for divorced people, try a local church. Life gives up trials and tribulations, but NEVER give up, it won't last long.
2006-12-19 07:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GrryDvdsn - U got hows 4 sale - sweet! Ex-wife is gone & U left job so r free! Free 2 go where ever! Do any thing life is ur own!
2006-12-19 09:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by PervyRetard 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well there must be a reason why your ex wife hates you, anyway she is your ex you two don't have to be the best of friends anymore so please stop worrying.
You have to find a new job, something you enjoy doing and that will make you happy in the future. Start thinking logically and stop feeling sorry for yourself, it will all come together in the end as long as you start working on it because no one else can do it for you.
Good luck xxx
2006-12-19 07:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE FREE, BABY! What would you LIKE to do?
Things I would do in your situation: Go back to college and start a new career (teaching), volunteer for the Peace Corps - or something similar; get a job with a cruise line so I could travel for free, walk across country, by a plane ticket and a Europass and spend the winter in Europe visiting museums and bodegas (you can sleep on the train), throw a dart at a map and move there.
Don't waste any more time trying to please anyone other than yourself.
2006-12-19 07:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your life, rent out your house and it will cover the bills. Go travel the world, get one of those round the world flight tickets. Go see another continent. Go volunteer like VSO.org or work with any big volunteer programme. That way they will help pay your travel and you get some time out to do something valuable for other people.
Send your ex-wife a postcard for every new country you visit.! Then she will see what she is missing!
2006-12-19 07:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by kenjinuk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, live a little with some of the money u get from house sale and invest the rest in a new flat- New start
Best of luck
2006-12-19 07:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to a new area and get a new start. Tell yourself this is the first day of the rest of your life. Get a job then get out and make some new friends.
Live life looking to the future NOT the past..
2006-12-19 08:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by bren_elvis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look in the mirror and realize that nobody cares for you if you don't care for yourself. You have to believe you're important.
Then, pick out one goal, decide what you need to accomplish that goal, list the steps then accomplish the first step. Work on one step at a time, one realistic goal at a time.
You can play pity party, but that gets old. People will tire of you. However, if they see you are on the road to recovery, then you'll have opportunities you never imagined!
2006-12-19 07:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get to the right tract. Find a job that you like and enjoy. Who cares if your Exwife hates you up to the skies. Now you can celebrate and shouts "Halleluya"I got rid of my wife thats hates me ,now I can find a woman who will love me for the rest of my life.
2006-12-19 07:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋