The guy I like asked to go over his apt, many think it was just a booty call, I didn't have sex with him, we just kissed, but would guys see this just as slutty as having sex??
Girls and boys your comments are welcome:)
2006-12-19 06:58:35 · 27 answers · asked by red_klinik 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Not at all, youre entitled to your fun too. But even if you did have sex with him, its your choice, i hate this double standard that women are slu-ts if they have sex for fun but men arent. Who cares what others think sweety, do what you want to do (safely!)
2006-12-19 07:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by Panda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not slutty. Just a tease,really. You see in from a guys point of view 98% of the time that kiss, especially if you slept over at his place could and hopefully will lead into sex. But if you didn't sleep with him you leave him hanging. I'm sure he doesn't view you as slutty. If you really like him don't give it up right away. If you you do he might just disappear.
2006-12-19 15:05:00 · answer #2 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way. You have to do the dirty deed or something a heck of a lot more involved than kissing the guy to be considered a 30H (read that upside-down). Good on you for not letting him get in your pants, especially if you and/or your friends got the feeling that all he wanted was a piece of @$$. Avoid those broke-d!ck-dogs like the plague unless you want to get the $lut seal. Big difference between putting out for some guy and being sexually involved with a guy that you've been dating seriously for a while.
2006-12-19 15:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by sarge927 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may get the wrong impression of you wanting more then juss a ki$$ if you attend to sleep over the boys house
.It doesnt consider you being a "slut" becos you didnt put out that evening.If people think that your a slut by kiss a boy...then they obviously dont know what the word means to any sort.
2006-12-19 15:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by Tami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all -- he would like to know that you are thinking of him.
IMHO, it would only slutty if you went over and had sex with him and did NOT kiss him.
2006-12-19 15:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by Joe B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. Some guys would tell everyone you had sex even if you didn't. Many guys have no respect for women at all, and others do. It all depends if he's a good guy or not.
2006-12-19 15:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by edawns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not slutty. Hey, in my opinion, even sleeping with him isn't necessarily slutty. As long as you're not out sleeping with a bunch of other guys, don't worry about it.
2006-12-19 15:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by mojo4395 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello red-Klinik- ****? Depend on If U r guy/ gal, ur agreement, intent & response. If U go alone & he is alone or if other guys r there? How well do U know him & them? Whats respectful way 2 b if ga / strate? Ga gi do good 2 ask b4 situation U cant handle!!
2006-12-19 15:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by PervyRetard 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not a good sign when a guy asks you over his place right away instead of on a proper date. You should be more worried that HE is "cheap", not you.
2006-12-19 15:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better luck next time. And don't worry about it you can still be a slutty.
2006-12-19 15:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by Eva 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋