2006-12-19 06:39:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try new things, spice up your sex life, play games, role play, be romantic, back rubs, bubble baths, take showers together, help out in the kitchen, do the dishes or other stuff that doesn't relate to sex. Search the Internet for stuff, there's a lot out there. Think of your wildest sex fantasy and try to incorporate it into your sex life (of course, don't do anything she's not comfortable with)
2006-12-19 06:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married people get stuck in a rut. What things do you both enjoy that you may have not done for a while? DO IT. Be spontaneous once in a while. Just go for a drive because the weather is nice and stop for ice cream or something. Start dateing again. Set aside one or two nights a month to just do something and relax without the kids (if you have any). Send flowers or cards "just because". Most married couples start (without realising it) taking each other for granted. Good Luck
2006-12-19 06:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set yourself on fire. LOL J/K!
You have to get away from the some-ole same-ole. Pay attention to your partners needs. Get away from the house and do something neither of you have done before. Make a list of things together that each of you have always wanted to do that you have never done. You may not be able to do all of them, or it may take a while before you can do some of them, but it will get you to thinking outside the box and opening your mind to new posibilities. Just talking about new things will help a lot.
2006-12-19 06:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by PDH 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well get a room at a fancy motel just for both of you and get you some oil that warms up to the touch, get some wine and give her a nice massage and when she's all relaxed then let nature that it's course. ALso there are more ways just use your imagination or IM me and ask me for more ideas.
2006-12-19 06:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all maybe you two should hold a conversation about something that yo 2 enjoy the most and what needs to worked out. I wish you 2 the best of luck, cause it took a TRUE MAN to ask something like that, and to actually care.
2006-12-19 06:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by Kandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say by doing things to create an element of surprise. Let your partner know that you care and let them know you are there if they need you. Little things can make a world of difference. And sometimes it helps to look at yourself and ask the question: What I am doing that I feel this way?
2006-12-19 06:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by Sean B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do exactly what your name says and the sparks will fly. Have fun!! Merry Christmas.
2006-12-19 06:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring flowers, dine out and tell her/him that they are more beautiful than when you first married. Also, be sure it is private time, just the two of you. Also, let them know how much you appreciate them and how they have been the tower of strength for you , more than they will ever know. That you love them more than words can explain.
2006-12-19 06:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you loose the spark? I need more details here.
2006-12-19 06:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do thing that make you wife feel like your more in love with her then the day so guy got married surprise her with thing like a poem or candle lite dinner or a full body massage or sing to her
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2006-12-19 06:44:12 · answer #10 · answered by Young and Wise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋