alot of women like to ask certain questions that they cannot handle the truth
what do you want us guys to say in this situation
so should we lie to u and keep everybody happy
or tell u the truth and make you cry
2006-12-19 06:29:33 · 8 answers · asked by ImaGman 5 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Tell the truth with as much love as possible, or answer the question behind the question. What is it they are hoping to get by asking this question? Affirmation that they are important to you is one goal, there are others too.
2006-12-19 06:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by Bre 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Something that works well for me is to defuse it with humour.
When you get a dangerous question like "Do you watch porn?", you say something like "No but I star in a few movies".
Rarely will they try to come up with the question again.
Then again if a girl puts you on the spot to much she's probably a girl you want to be around too much anyway
2006-12-19 14:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by Froztwolf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always be honest...if she can't handle honesty then she's not the one for you or she'll learn to either have a thicker skin, or not ask if she doesn't want to hear the truth...
Simple as that...we can always handle the truth, some chicks just handle it poorly...
2006-12-19 18:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The questioner (women as it is your topic) should only ask questions that they can handle the answer to.
In my case the whole truth and if I sob that is my problem not yours.
Meanwhile since you're on the spot, shine.
2006-12-19 14:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't lie, but that is no excuse to be cruel or harsh. You can always put your replies in a respectful and sensitive manner. HTH : )
2006-12-20 12:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use tact and diplomacy. It works for the men who have figured this out.
2006-12-20 14:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible to give the truth with love and reassurance
2006-12-19 15:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i like to lie
2006-12-19 14:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by stinkypinky 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋