okay well if you answered my question from last time u already kno wat i am dealing with! being a 15 yr. old mother wit no job goin 2 school,and my boyfriend a 17 yr. old father tryin 2 make income the right way, all of us living wit my mama! well i have some good news 4 all of u about me,my boyfriend and our baby Chandon!
we r still living wit my mama but things r on the bright side! i am NOT bout to give up my baby 4 adoption as many of u suggested, he means 2 much 2 me,coming from my flesh and of the flesh of his father!but as i said we r not giving him up and i have found a JOB! i went and got my workers permit last week! i am going 2 try 2 pull me and MY family off the ground! it is still kindof hard waking up in the middle of da night just to rock Chandon back 2 sleep knowing i have a test da next day but i will get over it! but i am doing better,chandon is doing good and i will make it hopefully!and i made a doc. app. to see if i am pregnant again, i hope not! ONE IZ ENUFF!!
2006-12-19 06:24:23 · 16 answers · asked by its me!!! 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
right on! well i didnt read your other questions, but sounds like your situation is getting a little better. may i make one suggestion? get on birth control, i agree with you , one is enough!
2006-12-19 06:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by smokingstonersweetheart 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well for one if she was really that worried she would have/should have been smart enough to get you put on birth control.. so apparently your mom isn't too worried about you gettin' pregnant again. she obviously should know if it happens once it'll happen again. so how are you doing with the first kid? still able feed and clothe her and everything?? then i think you should do what you want. don't get an abortion though i'm sure you will only look at your daughter and say she could have a brother or sister right now. so yeah. if you feel you guys can handle the second one then go for it. and as for being a sex addict i'm the same way. except i can barely get thru one day. and if i only get it once i'm still upset at the end of the day (depending on when i get it) so that's not stupid at all. but next time to avoid a 3rd kid before 20 i would suggest birth control some way of birth control. so i hope i helped and i hope you do what you feel is right. and if no one is there to support you then i would go to a friend or your boyfriend.
2016-05-22 21:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am glad you are making the best out of your difficult situation. I hope that you are not pregnant right now because that will only make things tougher. However, if that is the hand that God deals you, I am sure that you will make the best of it. One piece of advice that I promise won't steer you wrong is to make sure you get your education! Do not quit school to work full time! It seems like the best thing to do but you will not get far. Even if you have to get state assistance until you are done with school and have a good job, DO IT! You will not regret it later on. Good luck, GodBless, and get some birth control so you don't find yourself with more kids.
2006-12-19 06:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by micg 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Girl, sounds like you are getting on track and taking full responsibility for your actions. You will make it if you continue to have confidence in yourself and be optimistic that things will go right. Just don't have anymore children until you are really ready. Get on birth control. And most important, do not forget your education. I had a friend who had her first baby at 16, but she continued on with her education and never stopped, once. She got her bachelors in nursing and is now making more than enough money to support her and her family. Don't give up!
2006-12-19 06:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by Meuy V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
15 is young to have a baby But I think its great that you are going to bring up your own child and also FANTASTIC that you want to go to work to support your family. Definitely get onto some sort of contraception. I have a 4 and 2 year old and it is hard, and I am 27 with a husband. Good luck for your future and stay positive!!!
2006-12-19 06:34:24 · answer #5 · answered by Weiners and Beans 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's what I'm talkin' bout..Keep it up gurl. Yeah u grown (might as well say u are, u kno, cuz of the baby) so it's only right to get out there and start supporting ur family. Good luck with everything and make sho u use protection so u wont get pregnant!! lol happy holidays ma...
2006-12-19 06:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by mzsouthernprincess 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are not pregnant again, and if you are not please think about getting on some birth control.
On the other hand, I am proud of you for sticking with it. Having kids is so hard, but you are doing what you felt was the right thing to do, and it is great. I am proud of you for staying in school too!
2006-12-19 06:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by Garrett's Mommy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats great. You really are doing great. Its hard being a mom, going to school, I did it, but you are doing better than I ever did. I am also proud of you for taking charge of your family and keeping your baby if you are pregnant. You go girl. Have a Merry Christmas and happy holidays!!!!!!!
2006-12-19 06:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by kristin h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
way to go! it sounds like you're trying to move in the right direction. i know how you feel about being in school and having a baby. i give birth in january and i'm a sophomore in college...big age and education difference I know, but i can understand how you feel. I'm unemployed and it's hard finding a job when you're pregnant, so i know how you feel part of the way!! good luck with everything!!
2006-12-19 06:35:56 · answer #9 · answered by lildrumagrl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl i am soo proud of you. I am glad you are making the step on trying to make your family come together and work things out. Good Luck! If you ever need to talk.. I am more then willing to talk.. Let me know.
2006-12-19 06:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by tearzofaprincess 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋