Ok I just lost my baby boy, I was 23 weeks pregnant. I went to get an ultrasound and there was no heart beat. Its been 1 week since i delivered him. If anyone knows any websites where i can read about things that happen like this. I have no idea why, i just want to websites to maybe find a answer because this is killing me inside.
2006-12-19 06:14:55 · 5 answers · asked by BABYMARTINEZ 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It's not your fault.
I don't know of anywebsites, but you might try a general search on your favorite search engine.
I do know what it is like to miscarry though. It is not your fault. There is nothing that you did to bring this upon yourself. Your baby was sick and didn't make it to term. But you can have another whe you feel you are ready. I don't think there is anything that anyone can read or say that will take that kind of hurt away. But it will faid with time. It has been 2.5 years since I miscarried, and as much as I miss not knowing who that baby was, I know that he/she is better off in heaven then being sick here on earth.
Good luck with your search for peace, and God bless you
2006-12-19 06:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jenni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Hun I'm so sorry! I just went through the same thing. Oct 26 2006 William Russell Cobb was born at 21w3d due to an incompetent cervix. He lived for 3 hours. I'm so sad for you because you don't know why....I guess I should be happy because at least I have an answer.
Its so hard because Christmas is so near. I hope that in some way you can find comfort. You will continue to feel empty but remember your beautiful son wouldn't want you to be sad.
I also want you to find this song. Its called glory baby by the band watermark
its actually on this page....
http://blog.myspace.com/mommy2josalynn
You will cry 100 times over but its helped me so much! Look up poems for angel baby's also.
Again I'm so sorry and I do know how you feel. Remember we have 2 beautiful boys playing in the clouds together and one day we will join them again!
2006-12-19 14:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by angelmwilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found a web site called the leaflet on late miscarriage, type that into to your search engine and see what pops up. I am sorry for your lost and wish you the best of luck.
2006-12-19 14:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by kristin h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry to heat that. I am 20 weeks and that thought always is at the back of my mind and scares the he!! out of me.
2006-12-19 14:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by b&g4me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have several friends that have lost babies on this site...ourbirthclub.com. might want to check it out. (we kick off all rude and negative people, so its a nice place)
2006-12-19 14:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by posquatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋