Mum's booked me a Gyno visit. Because i have a horried discharge. I don't want to go. SCARED. PLEASE ANSWER

Question

I'm 15. Mum's booked my a app at the Gyno. She's worried about discharge, that i have.

This will be my first time. I'm scared, and don't want to be examined. Don't want the Gyno, looking down there !!

Mum said that, i have to go, but i don't want to.
Will being examined hurt ?

please tell me. Scared and Nervous. please help.

Answer 1

First, you need to understand and accept that pelvic exams are a necessary part of a woman's life. They can, in fact, save your life, but this is probably not the case for you this time.

Relax. It won't be fun, and it might be a bit uncomfortable, but it shouldn't be painful. A doctor, even a gp, has seen hundreds if not thousands of "down there's", and it't not a big deal for them.

Your mother is quite wise to be concerned about a vaginal discharge and to book this appointment. You may not realize it, but that concern is worth at least a few hugs as a thank you. Pleae talk with your mother about your fears. I'm sure she can help you with them. She probably had the same fears with her first pelvic exam. It's normal. Have some apprehension about the unkown is normal.

If you would feel better about the exam by having your mother there with you, then ask your doctor if s/he is OK with that. But relaxing is important here. Try deep breathing. By that I mean, take a long slow breathin, though your nose and then just as slowly , expell that breath through your mouth. It helps.

Answer 2

Honey, just close your eyes and get used to it. You are going to need to get these at least every 3 years. They are very important. If anything is wrong "down there", you will know right away and could possibly avoid a lot of stress and worries. If you don't like your gyno ask for another. I finally found a woman that I like she is very professional. She makes sure all tools/equiptment are warm to the touch. Ask for them to lower the lights. They will need the big bright light, kinda like a spotlight, that will be right there on you. The gyno will need to check your ovaries. By that, I mean the gyno will take 2 fingers and feel around on the inside to make sure they are not swollen. You always need to be completely honest. If you are having sex tell the gyno, if you are afraid your parents will find out don't be, tell the gyno just between you and them.

Answer 3

Just take a deep breath, honey. Gyno's are specialists- they know what their doing. When you get there, just let her know that your worried about it, and I'm sure she'll let you know what she's going to do before she does it. There's no reason to feel embarassed or self-concsious. Gyno's see every shape and size and every problem. It feels a little odd the first time you go, but it dosen't hurt, even if your a virgin. It just feels a little cold- after all, its not used to being exposed to air! Just do your best to keep those muscles relaxed. If you have to get an std test, she'll have to poke at your cervix, but that dosen't hurt either. Its sort of a strange cramping feeling, but it only lasts for a second. Going to the gyno is just part of being a girl, and honestly, I doubt anyone ever feels very comfortable with it. Gyno's know that, and they do their best to make it a comfortable atmosphere, and to do everything as quickly as possible. I've been to three or four different gyno's, all across the country, and I've never had a bad experience. Talk to your girlfriends- I'm sure one of them has gone, and can tell you about it. Besides, wouldn't you feel better knowing that everything is alright?


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Answer 4

You've got some good answers here.

You're going to be fine.
Can your Mum go with you?
Or your best friend?

Your discharge is your body's way of telling you that something's present that needs to go.

Your Gyno will take a sample and probably have the lab test it or grow a culture from it.

The lab results may reveal that you need to take an antibiotic or other remedy.

It's important to know what is causing your discharge. It may be that fecal matter has entered the wrong area. In that case, your Gyno may educate you about proper wiping and hygeine.

Good luck! You'll be fine. Please keep your appointment.

Answer 5

It doesn't hurt. It is embarrassing, but it is part of being a woman. It will start just like any other doctors appointment, they will ask you a bunch of questions and explain what they are going to do. Feel free to ask any questions that you have. Then you will lay down on the table with your knees lifted and apart. The doctor will insert something into you and gently open you up. It doesn't hurt. The doc will take a swab and wipe a sample from your cervix. It only take a minute or two. You need to get checked if you are having a problem, especially if you are sexually active. It is something that no body likes to do, but you have to.

Answer 6

If you are 15 and have never had a gynocological exam, then it's probably time. I had my first one at 13, and I was petrified. A good doctor will tell you what he's about to do before he does it, so there's no unexpected movements. You're going with your Mom - I'm sure she's had one before - ask her for advise and to come into the examination room with you! I know you'll do fine - God bless!

Merry Christmas!

Answer 7

You have nothing to worry about. The gynecologist sees women's bodies all day long, it is his/her job. An exam does not hurt and it is a matter of 5 minutes. I am sure you will be very proud of yourself once you did it, and your fear will disappear. When I went first, I made sure that I was comfortable with the doctor, that he was open to listen to my fears and I also took a girlfriend along.

Answer 8

I might be uncomfortable, but it shouldn't be painful. It's better to go and have a professional make sure you're healthy than have an infection and more pain and possible problems with fertility when you are older and want to start a family.

Answer 9

You probably have what is called a yeast infection. It is creamy and thick. Don't be nervous, because obviously you need to go. It is her or his job and they have seen thousands of "down there's"

Answer 10

it will take like 5 min and it doenst hurt. but it is important, its no big deal