He is 39 years old and finally realizes he is not a "young stud" anymore. This is making him VERY lustful for younger girls. He thinks that getting a young hot girl will make him feel better about everything about himself and his life ? Any suggestions on how I can help him (including should I encourage him to have an affair?) Many thanks for your thoughtfull suggestions. (www.BBWLuv.com)
2006-12-19 05:48:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dear Mitsi Mia:
Absolutely not! do not encourage him to look elsewhere. There are so many products out there for woman today to help them to appear young and desirable. Unfortunately not the case for men and for some men they would not welcome it in any event. Speaking for myself and being a much older guy then he think and do simple things for him like telling him you love him and that he is and always will be your guy. My guess is that allot of men are experiencing the same they want to be noticed and for those who may be thinking this that a younger woman is the answer also know they don't want to have the headaches that go along with it. So remind him what the benefits are when being with you. Traditionally working woman will in most cases go well out of there way to look fantastic for the days work and yet when they return home the first thing they do is to dress down. If this is you; why not freshen your look and stay sexy for him if just for an hour. It may help. I think you are already a special woman just for caring as you have.
Best wishes,
2006-12-19 06:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by Fresh choice 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had an 18 year old girl stay at my house for a week when I was 50. 39 is too young to have a mid-life crisis.
2006-12-19 05:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So the young girls are beating a path to his door? If he wants to look as old as he feels - tell him to go for it.
What about you - you too old for him now? Or just too mature -
Doll yourself up, feel good about yourself, and start having more personal days for you. Tell him if he wants any attention from you - he has to earn it. Take you on a date and see if he can get lucky. Wink at him and walk on by. Give him time to wake up and smell YOUR perfume. He can catch himself and figure out that what is good for the gander is good for the goose.
Second thought - Fresh Choice has a good plan below.
2006-12-19 06:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by Quest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mitsi, I don't think I would encourage an affair just to help him get through his midlife crisis. Just let him know that you are there for him, that you still find him incredibly sexy, and eventually this phase will pass.
2006-12-19 05:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you recognize, I used to have slightly that attitude myself. Then i assume I grew slightly, or something. presently previously I have been given my HD (and not understanding it substitute into coming on the time) i desperate to ease up on each and every of the others. The Harley adult adult males particularly. I holiday in each and every of the crap - it particularly is my decision. was i could razz all people, and any HD rider have been given it the worst. I rode Hondas, then. whilst it rained it substitute into "Honda climate". whilst the indy HD shop submit the spring particular sign it substitute into "time to bathe the Honda". driving interior the rain substitute into additionally "washing the motorbike". subject is, those adult adult males are purely residing their lives the way they choose. comparable as me, purely distinctive. I additionally found out i'm the only it particularly is distinctive, no longer them. Now that I holiday a Harley, does that mean i'd desire to alter? in no way. i'm who i'm, I holiday what I holiday, how I holiday. the two are related, yet do no longer define one yet another. to this point as doing it at 50, properly all of us started sometime. greater suited previous due than in no way. no person new is properly-known with what they are doing in the initiating. And, 50 year olds are not the only ones finding out to purchase motorcycles with great engines. each and every 0.33 question (it form of feels) right this is approximately "i'm new, i do no longer wanna be bored, am i able to holiday a ZX regardless of..." there is not any longer something right here to report, and why could I insult you? Birds of a feather, and all that. P.S. old bones/joints whinge whilst the components gets chilly and moist.
2016-10-18 12:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This midlife thing is his personal problem. All you can do is let him decide. I wouldn't want a man who cheated on me. Think of all the diseases in this world, and people are real free with their bodies nowadays.....ewwwww!
2006-12-19 05:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by shy skye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should NEVER encourage him to have an affair!!! he had his shot when he was young to be with these girls. encourage him to buy a motorcycle instead. also, don't put up with any bs behavior and be his door mat!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-19 05:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, help him get a younger gf.
good grief.
2006-12-19 05:51:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not know what to do but push him to cheat wont that just cause problems with the two of you
2006-12-19 05:52:06 · answer #9 · answered by angie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋