im 19 and not sure if this is definately good for me, by the time of birth ill be 20 ; financially i belive ill be fine as long as theres no surprises! hmmmmmmmm....im just alot cranky, bitchy and not wanting to talk about ! (in the begin- thats all i wanted to discuss)
2006-12-19 05:47:48 · 20 answers · asked by somebodysmamasoon 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
it's normal to have feelings of regret or remorse even debating if it is right for you. Believe me in a couple weeks when you feel the baby move you will change the way you feel. it's amazing.
2006-12-19 05:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by b&g4me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty normal, it sounds like hormones. If you think you could really consider not having the baby, then sit down and make a list of pros and cons. You might be surprised at the amount of pros for you personally. But, I suspect that you are not really thinking about not having the baby, you're just nervous about the outcome. In that case, don't worry. My husband and I were trying to concieve and I was happy when I got pregnant. But I kindof felt bad because I really didn't feel that excited or attatched to the baby at first. But, once you start showing and the baby starts moving around, you will definately start to be more excited and happy about your new life. Right now, the best thing to do is just continue your normal routine, adding in a few things like eating better and not drinking alcohol, but mostly just enjoy this time before you become "obviously" pregnant. There will be plenty of time to focus on the baby later. :) Congrats!
2006-12-19 05:55:41 · answer #2 · answered by redzodd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My emotions about being a mother change from day to day. One day I am extremely exited and the next I am scared out of my mind. I think what your going through is totally normal, I mean we've never done this before and there is always that fear of the unknown. I know you'll be fine. Just think of all the families in the world that don't have a lot of money but have more than enough love to support their families. Best Wishes!!
2006-12-19 07:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by krista_focus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your only 9 weeks along so technically your still in the beginning. I was 17 when i got pregnant with my son and 18 when i had him. Stress is very normal during pregnancy, trust me your not the only one. Remember you still have a ways to go and your having a baby so try not to regret anything because i promise you it's soo worth it in the end!! Hang in there and don't be afraid of showing the way you feel, it's a lot better than turning your back on it!
2006-12-19 05:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are completely normal. In the beginning your are so excited that your body will allow you to give life, and then it hits that you have another life in you. It is normal and okay to be anxious. Just try to relax and enjoy this time of peace and quiet. You will be a gret mom, and your baby is going to be jsut as wonderful. I got pregnant with my first at 20 and gave birth at 21. I know exactly how you feel.
Good luck and congratulations. Treat yourself to a manacure.
2006-12-19 05:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jenni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hormones are finally hitting full throttle and your going to be a royal b***h to be around and that is completely understandable. i was 16 when i got pregnant and i a now 17. all i wanted to do was talk about my baby when i first learned i was pregnant and then after the inital shock kicked in i was angry and uptight. i never wanted to discuss my daughters being and i was very unsure of where my life was now going to take me. it gets better...i promise. that feeling will be short lived and as you and your baby grow you will feel so much more connected with your pregnancy! pregnancy is a very scary situation for those who are young but just hang in there. yoou will be feeling better about it soon and i know that you wont regret it! good luck and i hope that this period in your life passes quickly by!
2006-12-19 05:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by dnea63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is only the beginning I got pregnant too when I was 19 and I was a mega ***** its not were fault though its the hormones and your body getting used of the fact that its changing. Sorry to say but its not going to get any easier wait until your almost due its the worst but look everyone get nervous some part of their prenancy but at the end it is all worth it, trust me.
2006-12-19 05:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by dev'smummy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're normal. Mood swings, depression, you name it you'll have it. Everyone goes through the "what ifs", that's just life in general. You will be fine. God won;t give you more than you can handle.
Just a tip.....get a copy of "What to Expect When You're Expecting" It is a great read for a first timer. You'll learn that everything you are feeling is normal and that it is okay to feel that way. Good luck to you
2006-12-19 06:07:15 · answer #8 · answered by Mommy of 2 Boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds normal. Believe me I am more cranky than before and was very excited. Hormones added on to your own emotions don't help. It seems like any emotions you have are tenfold and it is completely normal to feel these things. I am twelve weeks and feel like I have been happy, excited, afraid and so many things at one time. *LOL* It's completely normal for all of these things.
2006-12-19 05:51:19 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry. youre perfectly normal. i turned from just a ***** to a royal *****. talk about puking, every smell makes you want to puke, youre tired all the time (try iron pills and a nauseea manager- ask your doctor) now your over the surprise of being pregnant and just wnat to brood.... whats going to happen...is i going to hurt... allthat... youre probably sick of hearing people comments...what are you going to name it...is it a boy ogr girl.... god they allw ant to ask so many questions and give you so much advice you jsut want them all to shut the F up... and guesss what? you kind of dont relaly have much of a choice.... youre pregnant. you have two choice... have the baby or have an abortion...start planning andbuying now. tyoull be set when the baby comes. just rember its all very worth it once youre holding that gorgeous little bundle in your arms andtheyre all nestled against you asleep.... youll be crying tears of happiness. always hold that pic in your mind and youll b ble to get thru a lot .
2006-12-19 06:08:44 · answer #10 · answered by psychoticangel_kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋