2006-12-19 05:35:24 · 8 answers · asked by NYC GIRL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, you raised more questions in my mind.
First, How can he never cheat? I don't know of a man who could not cheat if things were just right. I am a man. I know how we are wired.
Second, have you tried all the other options already? Options such as counseling, talking to him, all of that?
Why are you not having any fun?
2006-12-19 05:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's more to marriage than fun. It takes a lot of work to keep up the fun stage. I think you are just looking for an easy way out. Re -evaluate yourself first before you consider getting a divorce over not having fun.
2006-12-19 13:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you don't have fun is not a good enough reason to get divorced. have you tried talking to him? Remeber your vows for better or worse and it seems no fun is worse for you. Try to work it out. If hasn't cheated on you then you have np reason to leave him.
2006-12-19 13:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by WINGS 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but I disagree with all these people. If you do not love this man anymore, but care for him, that is a good reason to leave him. Life is too short for you or him to stay together if you are not in love anymore, we are not living back in the 1920's when people stayed together happy or not for their kids. I hate to hear about counseling for marriages because have been there and done that. The counselor even thought my ex had problems, but the fact is nothing gets resolved most of the time. Counesling alone i think is good. Learn lots about yourself. The main thing is if you do not love him anymore, its time to move on. Good luck
2006-12-19 13:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by missy j 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
gIRL YOU MUST BE TRUE TO YOURSELF AND IF IT'S SO THAT YOU HAVE A GOOD HUSBAND THEN HE DESERVE TO KNOW WHATS GOING ON. bUT TRY TO SEE IF YOU CAN WORK SOMETHING OUT BUT IF YOU DONT LOVE HIM THEN DON'T EVEN BOTHER BUT YOU SHOULD ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT ONCE YOU SAY GOODBYE THEN THATS IT THERE IS NOT TURNING BACK WHATS SO EVER. SOMEONE ELSE WILL GET THE CHANCE OF PICKING UP YOUR HUBBY IN A BAT IF IT'S TRUE WHAT YOU SAY YOUR HUBBY IS A VERY SWELL HUBBY
2006-12-19 15:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by mary o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read Dr. Phils article on "Calling it Quits"
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/23
This isn't something you ask strangers on the internet. Ask your husband, if I were him I'd pack your bags for you. You sound like you're very immature.
2006-12-19 14:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what are you, 16? fun isn't everything. if you want to divorce him and date a whigger just to have fun then you have issues.
2006-12-19 13:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's alot of things you can do to liven up you marriage--you just don't wanna get off your butt and do it.
2006-12-19 13:41:35 · answer #8 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋