2006-12-19 05:05:41 · 10 answers · asked by heather s 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Just go easy. I used to be like that too.lol.
Just talk to talk to him.
But it can get frustrating when I've met people who are like that too.
So..just try your best.
2006-12-19 05:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by Ether Fumes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is going on in your mind when you get nervous? Probably what's natural--you're attracted and you sense the possibility of a strong personal connection. The nervousness is coming from a sense of not quite being comfortable with who you are. That's fine. You have alot of life and wonderful experiences ahead of you. Keep this in mind as you mature: confidence is attractive, but being yourself is beautiful.
Hey, for all you know, this guy might be feeling the same way. He might be ignoring you because he's nervous around you. Besides, don't discount your own attractiveness. Others never see you as you see yourself.
Just an aside: please work on your spelling. When you care about yourself, it shows in every segment of your life--even spelling. Plus, your command of the English language will help guide you to a brighter future. God bless!
2006-12-19 13:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by Michael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like you are normal.
As you get more experience with guys, you calm down, or at least learn not to show the nervousness so much.
Meanwhile, if you are able to relax before going near him, and realize that the feelings you get are normal.
Even if you were a 13 year old boy - for some boys.
(sorry about the wrong word. I was interrupted when I was typing.)
2006-12-19 13:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by femalegtrst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww =] Well, it depends, what kind of guy is he? Just take it easy. If you know each other just barely, then just give an occasional hi ___ =] and just walk by..don't stand there since you might get nervous. If you both know each other pretty well. Then go up and say hi and give him a hug. Then don't go to fast, just the occasional hi, what's up. And then get into a conversation. =]
hope it helps. sounds easy..but for some..it's not. Flirt a little, you can just play around to. Be like, "hi" glance him up and down real quick don't make it to obvoius with your head going up and down, just move your eyes and smile keep walking, make it quick tho and see what happens lol
2006-12-19 13:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by sweet&&simplistic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when your 13 most people act like kids around their crushes. but eventually you will get the courage to talk to him without being nervous.
2006-12-19 14:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe. Well just try to talk to him. Then when a conversation is started let him do more of the talking until you feelcomfortable.
2006-12-19 14:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take a deep breath, and treat him like on of your friends (with a little flirting involved, maybe . . . . :P)
There isn't really a trick to acting natural around guys that you like, just try your best to be yourself.
good luck!
2006-12-19 13:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by Girl With Kaleidescope Eyes 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm just like you when I'm around a hot guy so when i get around him i act like he is my friend and it seems to work because know we are dating. so don't panic just act cool!
2006-12-19 13:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by Shea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be relax...Don't give him to see that you are nervous...Talk to him,smile to him,flirt with him...:-)
2006-12-19 13:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jelena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HIM, BE URSELF
2006-12-19 13:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by miss_thang_fa_sho_05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋