I am 21 and I have two problems about sex. I am too sensitive to sex, while on the other hand, I deeply hate sex, probably because of my religious inclination. Whenever I fail to control my feelings and engage in masturbation, I experience intense depression. I feel worthless because I am incapable of governing myself. All my life, I have been trying to stop masturbating and yet I failed. Please someone help. I want to never think about sex.
2006-12-19 04:10:16 · 7 answers · asked by florad 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I had struggled with this immensely so I know what you're going through. Your energy is trapped in the lower region of your body, and it needs to flow upwards. Exercise and diet is great for this. Meditation on your heart is great as well. But you also need to be very cautious of your thoughts, because that determines the flow of your energy. If you're religious, then my advice is to pray for guidance with all of your heart. whatever you need it will be granted I promise you, but you have to stop being so critical and learn to forgive yourself.
2006-12-19 11:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by joren1111 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is a way to never think about sex. Everyone thinks about sex at some point in their lives, and there's nothing wrong with that, just like there is nothing wrong with masturbation. It's perfectly natural. Some people are also more sensitive to sex, and if you find that you are thinking about it too often, then just think of something really boring, anything that comes to your mind, to make the sexual thoughts go away.
But if you ask me there is no problem with masturbating or with thinking about sex. Everyone thinks about it and it is not wrong to do so, it is simply a part of life. Of course I can't change how you feel about sex and masturbation, but in my personal opinion it is nothing to feel depressed or guilty about. Your feelings are all perfectly normal, so don't worry about it.
I hope this helps a bit.
2006-12-19 04:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by Corrida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't your problem, guilt is your problem so concentrate on controlling your guilt.Seek some kind of help or therapy in that area. Masturbation is perfectly for a 21 year old man.
2006-12-19 04:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by October 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a problem with your religious beliefs if it makes you hate sex. Go to a therapist, get some real help, get out of your repressive religion, learn that it's OK to masterbate, grow up, find a mate, have lots of children and enjoy sex because it is part of what it means to be human.
2006-12-19 04:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married!
2006-12-19 05:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by jurydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youga is the answer to you problem I guess
2006-12-19 04:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by evertalall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
middle way
2006-12-19 04:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by chi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋