My ex is always upset an cant stand me which is understandable because we are broken up....when i go out on my own time and he has our son he make rude and offending comments to me...then he stays mad at me for a long time i dont know at what... maybe you could help...why is he sooooo angry with no reason
2006-12-19 03:59:17 · 12 answers · asked by How come 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is angry because you are going out and he doesn't want you to. Most guys think that no matter who broke off the relationship that the girl should be sittin at home every night thinkin about them and not out havin fun. You did nothing wrong. He is just being a guy
2006-12-19 04:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by collegeguy88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one on this site can tell you why he really acting the way he is unless he answers. Ask him, pull him aside and ask, and or think back into the relationship and try to remember what went on. He could be jealous, angry (obviously), hurt, doesnt know how to deal with the break up so he resorts to acting idiotic and childish. He could also be an all out jerk, I couldnt tell you but I would talk to him or try to. If I think about it, he could have a lot of pent up emotion and vents it out on you, it could be grief, depression, etc. Personally I do go on short bursts of rage, but thats why I isolate myself from people (always in my room) Id rather rot than hurt people because of a heavy heart. Those are the reasons (I believe) are the cause of my anger problem, I cant say though, thats the reason for his. as well.
2006-12-19 12:08:59 · answer #2 · answered by capt'n mewmew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter why he is angry with you? There is obviously something he has determined to be your fault. He needs to get over it. If he cannot control his anger and attitude around your son, then take measures to stop his visitation. Your son is not and should not be a part of the conflict between the two of you. Tell your ex to grow up! Good luck to you.
2006-12-19 12:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With out talking to him, no one here can tell you. However, some of the things it could be are that he is mad at himself for messing up a relationship, drugs (they alter moods and perception of things), or he might just have a anger problem. Also, it seems he has a issue that he does not own you anymore so to speak. I would look for a sitter when you go out, and if he inquires about your social life, just tell him that it is no longer of his concern.
2006-12-22 06:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he has some kind of mental problem that he need to work out. may be he need to see a council and have a talk to them about his angry problem he has. just a suggestion there is no right answer to your question every one has there own reason why they get so angry with people that why there is council out there to help people like him with there angry problem
2006-12-19 12:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHy do you care what your EX thinks, screw him as long as you get to see your son, And remember sticks and stones might hurt me but words never will. What you should do is when he starts calling you names and getting mad you. Tell him hey look who's talking and leave. If he gets mad who cares you shouldn't bother with him. You should move on and forget him. so if you need someone to chat with IM me anytime.
2006-12-19 12:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because he thinks you love him alot!!!And knowing that or feeling that...he thinks that he has the right to hurt you anyway he wants...or when he wants depending on his mood!Why does this happen???I think that even the guy can't answer that question...he just does it naturally...try to be har on him...don't show your love all at once!Challenge him!Make him know that you're with him because you love him and that if he doesn't aprecciate that...it doesn't maen other men wouldn't!Understand?Be alive...show him you're alive!
2006-12-19 12:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by jokersmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay that it bothers you but don't let him know it. Don't give him the satisfaction. I don't know the circumstances behind the break-up but continue to be an adult about the situation and let him be the childish one.
2006-12-19 13:10:14 · answer #8 · answered by Tana C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that boy got something wrong up in his head
2006-12-19 12:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can ask him or just dont give a fuckkk about an ex feelings towards you. really move on girlllll (smile)
2006-12-19 12:05:39 · answer #10 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋