i was 2 weeks late, and then yesterday all of a sudden i started and it has been really heavy and i have never experience cramps this bad before, and there was a big glob of just blood when i went this morning. am i having a miscarriage, if so do you think i should tell my b/f or should i just leave it alone?????
2006-12-19 03:43:49 · 14 answers · asked by vgplamondon 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
First, I'm sorry you are going through this. Even if everything is still o.k., it's very scary to have to go through what you are dealing with.
Second, it could just be a late and heavy period. Have you taken a pregnancy test?
Third, call your doctor and tell them everything that happened. If you are having a miscarriage, it's likely nature will take care of everything in your body. But it would be good to be examined to make sure you've expelled all of the tissue. If you haven't, you could get an infection. Please call your doctor first.
Fourth, if your boyfriend is supportive, then tell him. If you feel it would make you feel worse, then there is no reason you must share it.
The early stages of pregnancy and miscarriage are so personal for women. You just do what your heart tells you.
2006-12-19 03:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible. Many miscarriages occur before the woman even knows that she is pregnant. Also, many women just assume it is a bad period when in fact it was an early miscarrige.
It is also possible that your body was just a little funky this month and that what you are having is just a bad period.
I wouldn't worry about it. Just be aware of how long the bleeding lasts and if it is more than 7 days or so, I would go to a doctor.
Most likely, it will run it's course and you will be back on track by next month.
As long as you get back to normal within a few days, I wouldn't worry...and it probably isn't necessary to tell your boyfriend unless it becomes worse.
P.S. If you don't want a baby right now...please use protection.
Good luck!
2006-12-19 03:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had 2 miscarriages. One at 6 weeks and a neglected abortion at 10 weeks. I did not think any soreness with the first one. It occurred absolutely certainly and had no soreness with it. The moment one I had a neglected abortion and had a d&c performed. I had no soreness whilst I began bleeding. They gave me progesterone drugs in an try to store the being pregnant, however the child died. Sometimes I additionally wonder whether I might've had soreness if it occured certainly. I selected the d&c on the grounds that they might scan the fetus for defects. I would not fear approximately miscarriages if I had been you. The much less you strain approximately matters which can be from your manage the bigger for you - peculiarly for your situation. Pregnancies miscarrying very early on is traditionally because of chromosonal defects and there's not anything they may be able to do to put it aside. Enjoy your particular 9 months!!!
2016-09-03 14:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have reason to believe that you could have been pregnant, you will need to see a doctor to make sure that everything comes out. Leaving a partial fetus in your uterus can cause a severe, even deadly, infection.
Yes, normally a miscarriage will be painful. Early on in pregnancy, it will feel like severe cramps and there will be more blood than that of a normal period.
As far as telling your boyfriend, that is completely up to you.
Please see a Dr. if you really think you might have been pregnant
2006-12-19 03:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy of 2 Boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive had two miscarriages. Bad cramps. My doctor told me that 20% of pregnancies end in miscarriage. Many women think they just had a bad period. It can be more painful for some women. How far along you are factors into it too.
2006-12-19 04:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by DebeGrace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a pregnancy test or go to Dr. and see. Hormones should still be in your system. I had a one 10 years ago and I bled for several days, cramped and finally passed tissue. It was the baby and blood together. Very sorry for your loss if indeed this is a loss. You should go just incase u did not pass the entire fetus as this can cause infection and lead to complications with future pregnancy. Please tell BF if you were pregnant. This was his child to you know. wish u the best hun.
2006-12-19 03:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by lovelife 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that you did go through a miscarriage. You should get yourself to the hospital as soon as possible. As far as your boyfriend goes I think you should tell him. You can't just leave it alone. This is something very important to both of you and your health might be at risk.
2006-12-19 03:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by cihuatl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I had a miscarriage the same thing happend. If your boyfriend knew that you were preganant then definatly tell him. If he didn't know he still should know. Plus it will give you someone to talk with when you might get upset over it.
2006-12-19 03:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by Kristin R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a M/C with my first pregnancy at 7w3d and I actually had small contractions. There was a ton of blood with lots of clots and I bleed for 12 days.
2006-12-19 04:01:51 · answer #9 · answered by angelmwilson 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my sister had a misscarrige and she said its very painful, i think the best thing is to seek medical advice if your unsure it maybe somthing entiraly different
2006-12-19 03:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by looey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋