how can he actually have respect for women?
2006-12-19 02:33:15 · 14 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The clothes don't make the woman.
2006-12-19 02:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by rastus7742 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is hard to explain this one for you because you are a Muslim woman. As such you have been raised under the belief system that a woman's body is somehow evil and wrong. You have been brainwashed to think that a body needs to be covered up.
This was what they used to think in Victorian England. Puritans also shared this outmoded belief. Thankfully after many years society has evolved into a less sexist mindset.
Women can do as they please. Imagine that??!
Your logic is really pretty sad. You talk about respect for women, but at the same time you are suggesting that women can only be respected if they conform to some imposed stereotype defined by men. I suggest you read some books on feminism, and stop defending the notion that women are second class citizens.
Despite what your religion has told you, women are entitled to be equal to men. Women do not have to dress as men dictate.
2006-12-19 11:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure as long as she is actually wearing the Bikini. My mother didn't have the body for a Bikini so she never wore one. That is were the problem is if she doesn't have the figure for it. A son will loose respect for their moms poor choice of fitting swim wear.
2006-12-19 10:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with wearing a bikini. As a matter of fact in most cultures much less is worn. So of course he should not lose respect for her if she is comfortable with her body and wears a bikini
2006-12-19 10:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she where a bikini good and still has her groove let her do her thing! She is probably gorgeous let her live it up she's just a grown girl let her have fun, what else do women where on the beach!
2006-12-19 10:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by Lionel S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Respect is not something we are born with, it is something you teach your kids. It is a matter of principles. Of course, peers from school have a lot to do with it, but in the end it is up to you how well you communicate with your kids and how well you educate them.
I hope the best for your kid.
2006-12-19 11:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by skydiver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BY teaching the son to have pride in yourself and your body.
Maybe he will learn to respect women who repect themselves.
Bikinis are not illegal.
2006-12-19 10:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by wildflow30@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me see you in a bikini
2006-12-19 10:35:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is probably now damaged for life after seeing his mother in a bikini. This is a tragedy! His life is over now. I feel so sad. Please get therapy....just maybe he can somehow over come this. I can only hope!!!
2006-12-19 10:36:26 · answer #9 · answered by tellme.lies 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get real! The fiirst think any one sees when coming into this world is his/her naked mom. Give the guy some credit.
2006-12-19 10:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋