Question for those in a long term relationship?

Question

What is it about your significant other that you love and what are the things that drive you nuts.

Just curious.

Answer 1

I love how he makes me laugh harder than anyone else in the world, I love it when he moves my hair out of my eyes, I love the fact that he puts his nose to my neck and smells my perfume and thinks I don't notice, and most of all, I love watching him hold and play with our children.

I can't stand it when he leaves the toilet seat up, when he argues with me about taking out the trash or when he teaches my kids how to spit a loogie!

Answer 2

Well the things I love are the way I feel every time at the airport when I see his face after months and months of not seeing him. It is an amazing feeling. It is like fireworks everytime.

I love how insink we are with each other, the way only he knows what is bothering me and the right words to make it all better. As I do for him.

I love the fact that he is defendng our country, the courage he has to go to another country and be so scared and still show that everything will be okay to me.

I love the I Love you in the morning and the I Love you before bed.

The things that drive me nuts...hummm when doesn't stop asking the same question over and over again. The way he complains about his bills when mine all 3x his. all small and minor things that are easy forgotten.

Answer 3

I love the way that she loves people. She is compassionate, and kind towards everyone. I love that she sees me for who I am, and not who I "could" be... and that's good enough for her. I love that she smiles and the whole earth moves with her laughter. I love that she is easy to talk to, and is so willing to completely move beyond the normal walls in conversation. She is deep, she has dreams, and she loves me... she is everything. Our communication is awesome. We talk about everything... even the hard stuff to talk about.

She can be stubborn sometimes, and she doesn't always take care of herself... these things bother me, but not in the way you might guess. I just care for her a lot, and I don't want to see her exhaust herself. She chews ice while talking on the phone, and that can be irritating at times, but mostly, it's a small thing.

All of my pros far outweigh the cons... so I mostly only have good things to say. She makes me a stronger person, and she makes me want to be a better person. Love her... I do. I am going to ask her to marry me early next year... I am so excited to build a life with her. And she will never wonder whether or not I really love her, or care about what she's thinking. I get to show her, from now until the day I die, that this kind of love is possible... she'll always know exactly how I feel about her, and just how much I truely care.

Answer 4

I love how he looks, I think he is sooo sexy. We used to go out, he used to be so romantic, but no more. He just wants to be infront of this freakin computer and the tv. The thing that drives me nuts is that I am not the one he really wants. I have been with him for four years and I really wanted to marry him. I even asked him, no answer. When I ask him if he is waiting for someone else to come along he won't answer. he looks at other women on the internet and I feel like I am wasting my time.

Answer 5

There are so many things about my husband that drives me nuts but I love him so much. The most important thing about him is the way he is dedicated to me. and I've heard so mnay horror stories about sex in marriage but I cannot describe the high I get when he makes love to me!
The things I hate will need its own section. But at the top of the list is nagging. I thought only women nagged! But my husband will start an arguement and will NOT let go off it even days later!

Answer 6

I love my BF because every aspect of him is just right for me. He is honest and truly care for me aside from the fact that he is cute.

What bug me most about him is that he has trouble with communication and say how he really feels. Sometimes he will beat around the bush or refuse to say anything at all, but since I've known him for a while, I just know what he think or how he feels. But hey, once in a while, a girl needs something that spelling out aloud.

Answer 7

I love her smile, her intelligence, her personality, and her tolerance of me when I least deserve it. To me she is still the most beautiful and sexiest woman in the world. I could write a novel on all the little things I love about her. The only trait she has that can irritate me sometimes is that she is a perfectionist. She will work harder than she should to get something just right, even to the detriment of her health sometimes.

Answer 8

I have a longer list of things I love about my husband of 7 years but the top of the list is his loyalty and dedication to me and the kids. The thing I like least that drives me nuts is his short fuse/ temper which turns him into a mean dog that yells at me.

Answer 9

I love the way I am treated ! My man treats me soooooooooo well and I know I am very fortunate. He in turn gets treated like a king.

The things that drive me nuts :

He is not a quick thinker so playing fast cards games are annoying.

He is not good with confontation and leaves it up to me to collect the money.

Not much drives me nuts about him, he is soooo wonderful that these seem like a joke in the scheme of things.

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Answer 10

I love the way he looks at me and touches me, I love that he is responsible. I love that he recognizes the work that I do at home and compliments me for little things. I love that he always take the time to give me pleasure when making love. I love that he is there for me no matter what kind of mood I'm in. I love how he always takes me in his arms when we're in bed and complains when I move away from him. I love his values and his way to handle life. He gives me self confidence and motivates me everyday.

What tends to drive me nuts? When he doesn't answer a question straight and take forever to give me an answer or none at all.
That he seems to like watching TV all evening better than doing things together.
Sometimes it seems that his works comes first...
That he makes no effort to learn French, my mother tongue. And that he spends a lot of money in outdoor gear instead of saving money to pay for a plane ticket and come to France with me.