2006-12-19 02:12:03 · 27 answers · asked by Sunrise 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
For one Yes. I blame the guy that molested me when i was 8 that gave me traumas and no orgasm unless masturbating. **** him.
2006-12-19 02:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by Zenithia Victora 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not all of them. Many of them, however, do stem from childhood issues that I'm still struggling to overcome. When you've been abused as a child.............whether physically, sexually, or you were neglected...........there are things you never learned. As you grow into adulthood, if you weren't blessed to be rescued at an early enough age, you grow without this knowledge, and it can potentially mess you up for the rest of your life. And you may not know you need help! How can you ask someone to help you learn to trust others if you don't know that you don't know how to trust? I'm not excusing people who do blame their childhood for all of their problems, because ultimately, it is up to each person to claim responsibility for his/her actions. So, think about this......I was 6 months old when my father began forcing oral sex on me. When I was 3 I was raped by the babysitter. My mother was never home, she was always out getting drunk, so I was responsible for changing my brothers diapers and making their bottles. And being beaten by her boyfriend was added on top of that. All of this happened before I was 5.........so how many behaviors do you think I still carry from having to survive all of that? Like I said, I don't blame all my problems on that crap, but there's a lot that stems from it.
2006-12-19 10:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly some of our deepest neuroses are based on early childhood experiences but there comes a time in adulthood where we need to deal with these and move on. You can't go around treating people badly because of something that happened in your childhood - too many people use it as an excuse or as a barrier to hide behind.
2006-12-19 10:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by soulgirl76 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame my problems but how I handle my problems on things that happened in my childhood. I know I could change how I handle things but. . . it is difficult.
2006-12-19 10:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by a.gatenby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately some of the things I do now are a direct result of what happenned to me as a kid... I go to therapy and hope this wont always be the case...
2006-12-19 10:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by ~LAX Mom~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I still do...My mom should've never put my sister and I in the middle of her and our dad's marital problems when we were teens. Now as an adult they're finally getting divorced and she still put us in the middle and it causes nothing but havoc, I have stopped speaking to her and she has caused problems with my marriage as well.
2006-12-19 10:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by duvaldiva.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No even thou my child hood was the sh - - - I'm the one who"s responsible of what happens now. and if you can"t get over your past go and get some help, because i know it"s just not that easy but are you willing to let it ruin your future too..
2006-12-19 10:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Becky ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that only worked as an excuse until I was 18.
2006-12-19 10:14:04 · answer #8 · answered by Joni J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, childhood is past, we shud make our present funnnnn
2006-12-19 10:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I blame it on the choices I have made as an adult.
2006-12-19 10:15:40 · answer #10 · answered by Nep-Tunes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋