i cant help it but i'm getting attracted with the same sex,.my aunt is a lesbian...i don't know...i already had boyfriends but still when i see pretty girls, i get attracted or maybe i just admire them? wha chu think?
2006-12-19 02:08:42 · 19 answers · asked by poison_ivy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Could be a phase, could not be... whether or not it's no big deal. Explore it if you feel like you want to. It's ok. And it's ok if you have had boyfriends before and this is a recent development and it's ok if you go back to men too. Lots of people feel this way too, you're not alone. Oh yeah lol, just becuase you are attracted to the same sex, doesn't automatically make you a lesbian! Bisexual or bicurious, maybe.
2006-12-19 02:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by throughthebackyards 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably more so in "admiration" of them, but I can't say for sure. It's possible that you're bisexual and you're only now beginning to notice this or you could just be admiring them. Only you can know for sure, no one can tell you how you feel or who you are. ONLY you can.
Being honest with yourself and not living a lie created by others is NEVER wrong. Being the person you're meant to be, being true to that person, whomever you turn out to be, is always what God wants from us.
No, being attracted to someone of the same sex is not wrong, no matter what these so called "christians" tell you.
2006-12-19 02:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with it. People will have their opinions that it's wrong, but the thing is, it's none of their business. Do what you feel is right for you. I won't tell you to start dating girls or to stay away from girls. That's up to you. Do what you feel you need to do, and don't listen to people who say it's evil or you'll burn in hell. They have no say in your love life. It's your life, live it the way you want.
With that said, it may be actual sexual attraction. It's quite possible. But it could also be admiration. I recommend that you explore your feelings and discover which one it is. Only you will know your own heart. Only you can make that decision for you :) Good luck!
2006-12-19 02:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by Enceladus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course it's not wrong to fall for someone of the same sex, it's all about how you feel inside and how you feel when you are with someone. please do not feel that you are a lesbian just because your aunt is, it's not contagious or hereditary, at least they haven't proven it yet!!!!! seriously though, if you feel that you may be sexual attracted to a women, then you need to experiment, and find out how you really feel. you don't want to live the rest of your life only dating men and always feeling like something is missing, if you are really meant to be with another women.
one piece of advice with the whole experimenting thing, don't lie to the other woman, let her know up front how you are feeling and build a relationship from that, you don't wanna break her heart or have yours broken for not being truthful.
2006-12-19 03:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by luvway1022 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same happens with me, and it´s hard to explain, cause at least with me, I don´t want to fall for the same sex, and I try to think that maybe I just admire them just like you think but I guess is something that I like and actually don´t want to admit it so good luck and try to figure it out... you are the only one that can know if you are just curious or if it something you would like as a way of life!!
2006-12-19 03:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be a lesbian. Just take it a day at a time and figure it out. For some people it takes a while to figure out their emotions. *For some* it takes so long because they refuse to admit that their same-sex attractions are what they are.
2006-12-19 17:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what I've heard...
If you feel that its wrong, then maybe you just admire the beauty of the female body...
2006-12-19 02:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by bom-chika-wah-wah!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong. :-)
Maybe you should talk to your aunt thats a lesbian, perhaps she can help. Chances are your bii-curious or bi-sexual like others have said. Explore! Nothings wrong with that. :-)
2006-12-22 12:42:09 · answer #8 · answered by tashasw79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you have bad experience with your boyfriends? if so this may be the reason you are turning to the same sex. it is not wrong to admire an attractive person. but you are the only one that can decide if you are gay or not.
2006-12-19 02:14:36 · answer #9 · answered by heffie 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It's not wrong at all. Maybe you're just bi-sexual and starting to realize. Or more likely you're probably just bi-curious. Like I always say try it you might like it.
2006-12-19 03:03:20 · answer #10 · answered by Broken hearted 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋