Well I'm an african americam girl that wants 2 start dating white guys, but what i found out is that white guys seem 2 only be interested in white girls.So i need your help, what do i have 2 do so that they acually notice me? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!
2006-12-19 02:00:41 · 14 answers · asked by babz 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Be your true self. You wouldn't want to change who you are just to get a date. You want someone that loves you for who you are regardless of color. Plus, if certain people aren't noticing you then maybe it is for the best. Wouldn't it be nice to have someone adore you just they way you are without trying to get noticed.
You know people say: Love will find you when you least expect it.
That is because you can't force true love and true love is color blind.
Good Luck
2006-12-19 02:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a particular thing they are looking for. I think that some white guys are just attracted to dark skinned women naturally, but some in my brother's case just started talking to his current girlfriend and they hit it off. I think a lot of times white guys might be afraid that all black women act like the stereotypical black person, which is not right but unfortunatly it's that way. So you just have to show that you can be attractive just the way you are and you are not fitting into a stereotype. What I think is the best is becoming friends with them first with a little flirtation and then see if they become interested.
2006-12-19 02:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age why is anyone worry about colour? I don't understand how this is still possbile! I don't believe it's because of your colour or race or whatever. You may not have the attitude or personality that 'the guy' is looking for is a girl. You cant just throw yourself at guys. You have to make friends with them let them get to know you. Good luck.
2006-12-19 04:00:17 · answer #3 · answered by missjewl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 58 and I've dated white guys off and on for years. Try placing an ad. There are several yahoo groups for white men and black women. Join one of them. Good luck.
2006-12-19 02:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by a_gentletouch 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are dating the person not the race, so get to know the guy does it really matter if he is cacusian, african american , asain , or purple for all that matters? Love has no colors...
2006-12-19 02:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by --; cookie. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not true but you have to hang out with white people for them to notice you you have to be around them or they wont know who you are and dont date just because they are white or they may break your heart
2006-12-19 02:28:18 · answer #6 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the funny thing is that often when you are looking in one direction something comes along from the other. Hang in there. I wish you were MY neighbour!
2006-12-19 02:08:35 · answer #7 · answered by kytho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date for race date for attraction.
2006-12-19 02:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by onecutebyrd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are attracted only to white men, then make yourself available and be patient.
2006-12-19 02:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by Montecar3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not just find someone you like instead of specifically looking for a white guy?
2006-12-19 02:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mina222 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋