Why do women tend to always nag their boyfriend or husbands to do stuff for them?

Answer 1

That's how it works.

Answer 2

First let me qualify this answer: this is only opinion! But...the key word in this question is nag. Asking and nagging are two different things, and I will focus on nagging.
There are several possible reasons for this, and if you are seriously asking and not just venting, then you should figure out the source of her angst and attempt to resolve it to promote harmony in your relationship.
1. Insecurity- The woman feels insecure in the relationship, and is testing her boundries, wanting to know if you'll still do the little things you used to before you got comfortable in the relationship.
2. Expectations- These are the reason that a lot of relationships fail... we each expect the other to act a certain way and to do certain things. When this isn't done, it leads to insecurity.
3. Anger- They are actually angry about something else, but don't know a proper way to broach the subject, so they nag until an argument is started and then unload the whole load on you if you're lucky. If not, they hold in the resentment and continue to nag until you realize yourself what you've done to anger them. Good luck with this one.
4. You're a lazy jerk- This one is the main reason I get yelled at. I know the hardship of staying home with the children and taking care of the household, having been a single father, but still feel that I have the right to come home and relax, rather than do a little bit (and that's all, just a little bit) to help out around the house after work.

Any way you look at it, IMHO, if the woman is nagging, then there is a deeper problem in the relationship, and you need to look there for the source, rather than at your partner.

This list, by far, is not complete, just the first few things I could think of. Good Luck!!!

Answer 3

If you did the job in the first place they would not have to repeat themselves. Which is what you call nagging. It is, therefore not the women's fault but the men's inaction that causes the response.

Answer 4

Let me guess you are single and staying that way. Why do boyfriends or husbands always nag us for sex. World works out perfectly I think. lol

Answer 5

hmmm it only turns into nagging when someone is to lazy to do THEIR PART!my bf and i are lucky we share responsibilities and hes a wonderful man if i am taking out the garbage he will stop me and take it out for me-and when he gets home from work i rub his feet while hes having something to eat

Answer 6

girlz think men look funny wen dey obey women's rulez. sometimes they like saying
WOMAN: do this and i'll sex with u once more
and so men just do it for the sake of sex. no matter wat it is. men r stupid really.
besides ladies know that they're men r not gonna hit them cuz it's rude. and ladies can get angry quickly so men just get on wid it. and ladies know dat men r stronger than dem, so they like to see their heros (their men) go and do something 4 dem. it's called love.

Answer 7

just a thing a girl does its their nature.they have to do it. also men will never fully understand girls.they got alot of twist and turns but no matter what we will stay with them.

Answer 8

men tend to be a bit lazy sometimes and don't do their part so we have to keep reminding them, whereas we always fulfill our responibilities

Answer 9

Becaue they aren't thoughtful enough to do things without being asked.

Answer 10

maybe cause the man is so lazy he won't get off his @ss and do anything any other way