If you know he is, and you told your mum once and she ignored it, you have the slight feeling she got hurt but dont want to cause more pain to her.
Your dad is a piece of work, and you hold a secret that could destroy the family. Everytime your dad pushes you around your an inch closer to saying the secret.
But your mum says now is not the right time. What do you do?
2006-12-19 01:12:22 · 6 answers · asked by Sid&Miz&Coke bestiez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell your dad you know.
2006-12-19 02:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sometimes find people read better than they listen. Write each of your parents a long letter explaining how much the situation is causing you unhappiness and give them a chance to read and reread and resolve this themselves.
Nobody will thank you for throwing a secret into the works that rips everyone apart just before christmas. The new year, new start. Get through christmas.
2006-12-19 09:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by einochi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to let them figure it out, I know that it has to hurt, but your telling is not going to make them do things differently, when your mom is ready she will do something about it. Just kind of be supportive, your dad is in a world of hurt also, I believe at one point they had to have loved each other.
2006-12-19 09:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and ask God to help you and go to church and change everybodys life and read your Bible if you have one ....your part of the family too dont let him get far into another relationship that it breaks up your family....prayer changes everything...but God has his timing to change it and answer you when you pray....it might be a month and it could be a year or longer, but dont give up make a difference in your family.....keep them together....God is there for you and wants to help you all you have to do is ask and believe he will help you and he will...God bless
2006-12-19 09:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by littleshygui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involve with this problem, its not your to deal with, your mom is a grown woman and she is the only one that can stop or permit this situation, I know what your going through, I LIVED IT.
2006-12-19 09:16:36 · answer #5 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell her again i mean there is not point in waiting because i think that she will be more hurt if she finds it herself or walks in on them or tell him that if he dosent come clean that you are going to tell her
2006-12-19 09:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by octashiathamoneymaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋