usually a pot luck wedding just means the food is potluck unless they specifically asked you to bring something if so you must be family or a close friend. I have been to a couple like that the food is so much better than catered if someone put that on an invite it would be kind of rude as bringing a dish would be something you would ask personally and then as I said only family or close friends
Have fun!
2006-12-19 00:22:02
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answered by katlady927 6
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There is so much wrong with this wedding I'm not even sure where to begin. 1. Fourth weddings should be scaled back. My mom was married four times and the last wedding was a court house ceremony with a couple friends, and myself. They took us out for lunch at nice restaurant after. 2. Since this is her 4th marriage she should scale back the bridesmaids dresses, or pick up the tab if she wants them in $200 dresses. Who can even afford that, especially for someones 4th marriage. 3. She should not register for gifts after the first wedding. As many times as she has been married she should have enough stuff between her and the new guy to set up a couple households. 4.Most country clubs will only allow the person to use their food only. Potluck weddings are tacky in general, especially in a fancy country club. 5.You do not put out a jar asking guests to fund their vacation. That is beyond tacky. You are that people will be turned off and won't show. i wouldn't.
2016-05-23 06:58:20
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answered by Anonymous
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"Potluck Weddings" are becomming more and more normal. They aren't considered "tacky", the idea is showing up quite often in wedding magazines and such.
Catering has gotten SO expensive and lets face it....who REALLY remembers the food?
This is just another way to make it more personal and let everybody feel involved.
You don't have to bring enough for EVERYBODY...just to have as an offering along w/everything else. Most that do Potlucks actually ask that a dish be brought in lieu of gifts.
If you're that put off by the whole idea, then don't go. Afterall...weddings ARE supposed to be FOR the Bride and Groom...not YOU.
And obviously, if you feel you need to "Teach them a lesson" just because YOU don't agree with thier choice, then you must not be a very good friend and you were only gonna go for the *Free food and booze*....if they knew you felt this way, they'd probably take back thier invitation.
2006-12-19 00:26:49
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answered by secret_oktober_girl 5
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That is so pathetic. Maybe they are really poor, or they thought it was a really really fun and different idea. Well it sounds like this party is going to suck. I would bring a bag of Cool Ranch Doritos, drop it off and leave.
2006-12-19 00:20:12
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answered by lulu 2
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I will bring the pickle loaf and spam!
2006-12-19 00:19:28
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answered by Anonymous
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lol, that's too awful
2006-12-19 00:30:01
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answered by Ebony 4
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I don't know!...
2006-12-19 00:20:14
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answered by Anonymous
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why don't we sue?
2006-12-19 00:19:47
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answered by Anonymous
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