what are ur views about premarital sex??

Answer 1

If it is about two adults: go ahead!

If it is about teenagers:
If it is a question of love and not of hormones,
if both parties REALLY agree,
if every possible protection is considered:
I have nothing against it!!!

Answer 2

Well, age would certainly be a factor, but protection would be the bigger concern. Young teens are going to have sex no matter what you do, but look at the success with teen pregnancy in the Netherlands; they put the emphasis on the pregnancy ~ not the sex.

Other than the fact that "young sex" tends to be a bit clumsy and traumatic at times, you can't expect kids with raging hormones to just be abstinent. That's just stupid.

It's probably better that people considering marriage know SOMETHING about sex as opposed to nothing. At least a rudimentary knowledge of sex would make a couple's first attempts more pleasurable.

Answer 3

I think it's necessary because a couple need to know if they are sexually compatible, i.e. that they have the same sexual tastes. This is important to know since sexual interaction is a big part of a relationship and marriage shouldn't be taken lightly. Imagine getting married and then finding out that he has a slight bondage fetish and she only wants sex on Sunday in the missionary position. Sex wouldn't work out too well between them and its possible this will result in people cheating.

Answer 4

I'm going to tell God's view which is the most important.
"What! Do YOU not know that unrighteous persons will not inherit God’s kingdom? Do not be misled. Neither FORNICATORS, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men kept for unnatural purposes, nor men who lie with men, nor thieves, nor greedy persons, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit God’s kingdom." - 1Cor. 6:9,10
Fornication includes premarital sex. The Bible exhorts Christians to flee not only from fornication itself but also from all forms of unclean conduct that could lead to it. Doing so we make God proud and we keep ourselves away from suffering which may include a broken heart, an unwanted pregnancy, a sexually transmitted disease etc.
So, it's for our own good not to have premarital sex.

Answer 5

You'd be hard pushed to find anyone that had'nt had sex before marriage,it was happening over 50 years ago and people just don't care these days, it seems your question is very old fashioned almost like asking does anyone have a microwave!

Answer 6

I think we all think this just might be OK - But - Only as long as no one gets pregnant. Anyone getting pregnant without being married needs to be forced to give the child away. No exceptions unless you are over 18 and can prove that you can support the child entirely on your own at a very comfortable level. NO poverty babies.

Answer 7

No reason to tie yourself to one person for the rest of your life just so you can have sex. Being sexually compatible is important to a relationship. It's not the most important thing, but incompatibilities in the bedroom can lead to major problems elsewhere.

Answer 8

I think its important for a man and woman to find out if they have any sexual chemistry before they get married. Sex is a big part of a relationship, so if it sucks, the marriage is going down the crapper.

Answer 9

Look i had the intentions of not Having sex till i got married. but my girlfriend was so hot and she she.....she forced me to do it....now we just Celebrated our 2 Anniversary. i think if your intention is to have a long and meaningful relationship with someone and plan on taking it some where its good. but to just mess around, im against that.

Answer 10

Lost people do not mind about that. When the virginity of a girl is tempered with, that is all about that girl. Any sex out of marriage is an abuse to God especially those christians who have taken their work with God for granted.