Ok so i have been in the closet for ever, since turning 30 i have decided that i cant hide no more, so i have come out to my mum and dad and sisters , and made then descision i need to be free.
I have also fallen madly , truly deeply for my mrs of 6 month and want to start a life with her .
Ok i have a 11year old daughter, who has seen a huge change in her mum , and who is always texting and phoning a women !
She is fab and very mature for her age and i want to be honest with her and truthful but how do i even begin to do this ?
I love her to bits and want to be truthful it breaks me not being honest with her as we are very close, and want her to know for the 1st time ever her mum is so happy ...
I don't expect her to tell anyone if she doesnt want to, and i would never rub it in her face, except i want my life to start with my partner and that means introducing my girlfriend to her...
So please i just want other peoples experiences, stories to help me do this....
2006-12-18 23:18:25 · 4 answers · asked by loulou777 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am glad for you.. Just be honest to your daughter and you family... if your mom and dad and sister do not under stand who you are then the heck with them all that matters is you and your partner are happy and your daughter loves you no matter what you do or who...Let me know how it goes.
2006-12-18 23:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by c_kaper@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to sit down and think it over for a bit. Although it is definitely the best possible way, the one that you have described, but you have to keep in mind that she is just 11. So whatever decision you make, make sure that your daughter loves you the way she loves u now.
2006-12-19 07:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by dexter_theboygenius 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on finding someone you care so much about!
Before you "come out" to your daughter, why not introduce her as your "special friend" first. Go on a few outings together, have meals together, etc.
Then let her know that you 2 are in love. If she's as mature as you say she it, she'll probably "get it" pretty quickly.
2006-12-19 07:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by Renee C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love your daughter tell her the truth. its about her now and not you.
Let me ask you something.. if Your daughter didnot want you to go any further with this relationship who would you listen to
Your daugher of your feelings?
Are you perpared to be let down later or would you know how to handle your daugher if she reacts to it differently?
Its great that you are happy just make sure your daughter is to.
Adults are responsible for their mistakes and not their children.
2006-12-19 07:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by saynhope 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋