how can i prove to her that i still love her
2006-12-18 22:09:18 · 10 answers · asked by Pauly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
stay silent and listen !
u dont need to prove anything
just be yourself
2006-12-18 22:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by piscean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt be saying that shes bitching (if u really love her) ;) First of all you should know that there are no 2 people who think and act alike. So what you may be feeling for her, may not be percept by her the way you want it understood. Therefore you need to try different ways in making her understand that. This applies both ways. Sometimes she may not be able to make u understand the way she wants you to know how she feels for you.
Infact...women arent like men...from the affection point of view. They expect more affection and attention, which isnt hard to give. I suggest you plan activities together. Surprise her once i a while with a bouquet of flowers, or a box of chocolates....or walk in home and without saying anything, carry her to bed and tell her you wanna love her upclose and personal. Little things count believe me :) Another important thing is the communication between you 2. You should spend more 'quality' time together. Talk about eachother (leave the day-to-day issues out)...talk about your feelings...because as we continue living with the same person, we get used to it without realizing...until w become accustomed to how we live, talk, act and react. Every now and then you should discuss wat to change and wat to imrpove and wat to keep. And always ask eachother on how to make one another better. Life is so much better when you love someone who loves you for everyting :)
As long as shes your queen and she makes you happy....im sure she does it cause you put her on top of the world! So go today and surprise her.
Goodluck!
2006-12-18 22:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by Claire 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a woman.....
Let your wife know that you love her by surprising her at work (or home) with a bouquet of flowers. Write a note that you love her always.
Buy her a great Christmas gift. (Diamonds usually work. I love the three pendant diamond necklace that represents the past, present and future. It's the three stone diamond pendant necklace.) It doesn't have to be expensive, but just something that means a lot to her.
If you remember anything specific about your dating year(s), buy her something or find her something that was special to the both of you. For instance, if you went to a picnic in the park, buy her a picnic basket, a picture of the park you went to. Then, if you went to a movie, buy that movie for her.
If she really loves something in particular (some women collect things) buy that for her.
When she starts to talk, really listen. She may talk for hours, but listening is the key here. It's really important for us to know that our partners listen to us because our spouses are our allies in this world. If she feels that you are not listening to her, she'll feel that she has lost your friendship-which should be a vital part of your relationship.
Show her that you think she's special. Good luck. I hope that all works out well for you.
2006-12-18 23:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buddy women sometimes don't care what you think, but what you do for them, they like to be listen,why don't you take 10 minutes of your day just to be with sit quite at sunset , she might like it.
do you send her a flower lately ? do tell her i love you lately?
if you don't u in big dho dho buddy.
make surprise Christmas give , no need fancy just romantic.
oh ya and if you have breakfast in house and she cook, do me a favor just stare at her for good couple minutes don't say a word and see gently what you see , maybe you'll realize how beautiful(if she got ugly ,(joking) just close your eyes try to remember what make you want to marry her at the first place) and howimportant she is in your life.
okay best of luck
P.S love no need to be prove is suppose to be flow around you two.
2006-12-18 22:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by mazdaspeedprotege 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The operative word should be "enough" attention. In that case you need to tighten up your game. What ones not getting at home may start to look elsewhere.
2006-12-18 22:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one,as i seem to go through the same thing with my girlfriend.What you have to do is ask you're self are you paying her attention,sit down and ask her why she feels this way.
2006-12-18 22:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by half pint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her out in the yard, start the lawnmower and tell her to push it around the yard for an hour, go downstairs and turn on the game, that should shut her up for awhile
2006-12-18 23:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by besthusbandever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave her,women complain no matter what you do.
2006-12-19 02:52:34 · answer #8 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just listen but don't hear all men do that :)
2006-12-18 22:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by adivinaminombre 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's the BOSS
2006-12-18 22:13:52 · answer #10 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋