we have been togather a year and a half and have never had a problem like this we a so in love and i cant believe he has done this he says he doesnt no why and it just happned what can i do please help me
2006-12-18 21:49:19 · 19 answers · asked by sexi_69_chik 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's so gay to put on a web cam show. There were probably men on the other side looking at him.
By the way, you guys are not so in love. Guys who are in love don't put on a web cam show for complete strangers. You may be in love with him, but you can bet your sweet a*ss that he doesn't feel the same way about you.
His poor, lame, sorry a*ss excuses don't help convince me that he is being sincere with you. Pay attention to what a person DOES, not what he SAYS. He will keep screwing you over and over and over while telling you that he loves you and that he doesn't know why he stuck his penis into that other hot girl with DD breasts.
Get a clue missy.
2006-12-18 22:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hard to answer this. People do VERY VERY stupid things on the internet sometimes, it's too easy to do.
He'll need to grow up and start respecting your feelings more if he's to keep a real life relationship going and stop being an *** on the internet and realise that this is where problems begin and why so many relationships these days are going off the rails. The internet is just such an easy place to lose yourself on.
I would give him an ultimatim. Point blank. This behaviour should not be tolerated and it's up to him. If he wants to continue, then I would move on. He needs to realise how hurt you are over this and if he doesn't pull his head in, this will become a habit for him and he'll continue doing it behind your back because he enjoys the attention and the thrill of it. He'll be the loser in the end. He may not think so now. Virtual reality on here is a thrill for a while. He'll go from one cyber tart to another if that's what he wants in life. Meanwhile, you need to be straight up and if he can't be, MOVE ON.
2006-12-19 06:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by Gus 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it's past time for you to re-evaluate your (relationship?) with him ,,,, He's leaning towards perverted ,,,, and depending on who he displays to ,,,, big serious trouble ,,,, As computer communication is available world wide not only the FBI could get involved but also INTERPOL ,,,, Better separate yourself from him NOW ,,,, Besides if he felt about you the way he should he wouldn't do stupid things like that or present himself to you as a fool like he's doing ,,,, He's evidently not worried about what you think of him which in turn shows a lack of respect for you ,,,, He obviously doesn't care what you think ,,,,, his actions indicate that ,,,, Time to move on and find some one who will conduct themselves in an acceptable manner and treat you the way you think you should be treated ,,,,, A relationship should be fun and exciting ,,,,,not what this guy is forcing on you ,,,, There are plenty of other fish in the pond ,,,,, go fising and find some one that is fun to be with and comes trouble free ,,,,, They are out there ,,, all you have to do is look
2006-12-19 06:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Did he get this for free or pay for it? I work on a live webcam site. If he paid for it, then you have problems. If it was simply girls he met and flirted with you have every right to be hurt but it doesnt mean he doesnt love you. It means he was bored/curious/horny etc There are many reasons he could have done that, He was honest with you about this. Did he volunteer the info or did you find out another way? If he told you, he definately loves you. It is hard to be hurt like this but if you truly love him don;t be cold to him, let him comfort you, hold you, tell you everything will be better and prove it through time and trust. Good luck.
2006-12-19 05:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I'm so sorry you've been hurt. Some people think that because it's over the Internet, it isn't cheating. Wrong! If he says he doesn't know why, then maybe he should go talk to someone. It's good that the two of you are talking about it Hopefully he understands how hurt you really are by this. He's going to have to re-earn your trust, but if you both continue to be open about your feelings and perhaps get some counselling, you'll be able to get through it.
2006-12-19 05:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by pink.vixie 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe things aren't as great as you thought...
Perhaps you need to find out what the problem is and fix it... Or maybe her likes that stuff and you should get involved at the same time... While he's on the webcam with it out, you should give him a handjob or a bj!! :D
2006-12-19 05:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps he was drunk, or under the influence of something, maybe temptation just got the best of him. Think about this however, just because you're in love with him doesn't mean he's in love with you (love hurts), but if he truly is I'm sure you 2 can work it out. Good Luck.
2006-12-19 05:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by Remember The 300 Spartans 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
after 1/5 year friendship with him you have not undrestand his behavior?it is too bad.there are 2 points in your problem.
1- Maybe he was like this and you could not feel it, because love makes sb blind about the problems
2-Maybe he is right and didnot do it
By the way you must be sure about it.If so, you should leave him.he is sick.he has you and does these to others.
Good luck
2006-12-19 05:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by Elham 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
better look in to your relationship a little further. if he loves you then why is on a web cam for other girls.sounds like he wants the best of bot worlds , don"t do it you will only get hurt.if he did it once he will do it again. let him go
2006-12-19 05:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by fireman12 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he is willing to promise you, on his own free will, that he will not do this again---and he takes steps to prove to you that he is true to your word...that is one thing. If he doesnt and you stay in this relationship you will be condoning the act...and he will potentially do it again.
2006-12-19 05:53:20 · answer #10 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋