Here's the deal: I was helping the entire class on a math problem, and still had to complete the rest of my own work. So after I had helped everybody, I went to the back of the classroom to focus on my problems. I was standing up over my notebook, supporting myself on the large table in front of me. One boy in my class whos done with all his questions lies down on the table, and I don't think anything of it. Then, I look up at him and ask him: "You're enjoying this, aren't you?", referring to me slaving over my work. A little smile flickers across his face and he asks what I mean. It was then that I realize he was trying to look down my shirt. *Gasp* What's worse is he's my friend's bf. How can I ever speak/look to him again?
2006-12-18 21:33:10 · 12 answers · asked by Melissa Zondervan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Relax. He's probably moved onto his next peep-opportunity and isn't even thinking about it anymore.
2006-12-18 22:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL, that's hilarious. I would just be casual and rather subdued with him. Keep your distance a little bit, so he'll get the message that you're not overly impressed and then let it wash over. It's not a big deal. Heck it could be worse, he could have been looking up your skirt. He's just being a typical male, don't worry about it.
I'm sure he DID enjoy it, but don't let it or him worry you. Just act normal with him and shrug it off. Really, he's the one in the wrong and he got caught out. Basically how can he look or speak to YOU after what he did? I bet he'll be just fine about though!
2006-12-18 21:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by Gus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U should not b the one 2 feel uncomfortable he is the one that did the wrong thing. When u see him again pull him aside and warn him that if he ever does that 2 u again u will b going straight 2 your friend and telling her what he's up 2. If he doesn't care about that then scare him with a threat of going 2 the cops 4 sexual harassment. He sounds like a pig especially if he is going out with your friend. Good luck, Mwah
2006-12-18 21:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by Chesty 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to relax..... you have a lifetime of things like this to deal with. You can't avoid every guy that tries to look down your shirt, cause most will do it given the opportunity. Just act like nothing happened,....its no big deal and he's probably done it before and you just never noticed.
2006-12-18 22:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's absolutely no harm in looking. Men will try to look down or up anything and everything to take a peek. Get used to it.
2006-12-18 21:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly? Tell ya BF.. This is also the time to see how yr bf react.. Is he on ur side or his friend. It helps if u r gonna stay long with ur bf
2006-12-18 21:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by elmo_gerl45 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
haha come on it's not that bad I've had worse just ignore him and don't don't bend over in front of him,
2006-12-18 21:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not your fault..if he is a dog he is a dog..you did nothing wrong so dont feel guilty..he might use it against you..be cool and tell him to never do it again.
2006-12-18 21:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by hip2bmary 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would tell your friend what he is like.He dosent seem like a good guy.and dont go near him
2006-12-18 21:40:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So your boyfriend's friend is a jerk. Speak/look to/at him like to the jerk he is.
2006-12-18 21:39:10 · answer #10 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋